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title: "Capturing the Friedmans"
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# Capturing the Friedmans (2003)

Directed by Andrew Jarecki · 1h 47m · Documentary, Crime

**Fi1m score: 82** · Critics 73 from 12 reviews

*In a sentence:* The family kept the camera running through the worst year of their lives and the tape still cannot tell you what happened

> Andrew Jarecki’s film about a Long Island family charged with abusing the boys in its basement computer classes is patient, even-handed on the surface, and built from the family’s own tapes. It does not settle the case, and it does not have to.

## Synopsis

Great Neck, Long Island, 1987. Arnold Friedman, a schoolteacher, runs computer classes for local boys in the basement of the family home he shares with his wife Elaine Friedman and their sons David, Seth and Jesse Friedman. A postal inspector, John McDermott, intercepts a magazine of child pornography addressed to Arnold. Police, among them Frances Galasso of the Sex Crimes Unit, raid the house in the week of Thanksgiving, and Arnold and eighteen-year-old Jesse are charged with abusing the boys who came to the classes. As the case builds, David, the eldest son, keeps a video camera running through family arguments, meals and long nights, while Andrew Jarecki interviews the police, the prosecutor, former students and the Friedmans who agree to speak.

## Review

Andrew Jarecki began by making a film about children’s party clowns in New York, and one of the clowns turned out to be David Friedman. What he made instead is 107 minutes about the Friedmans of Great Neck, Long Island: Arnold, a schoolteacher who ran computer classes for boys in his basement; Elaine, his wife; and their sons David, Seth and Jesse. In 1987 a postal inspector intercepts a magazine of child pornography addressed to Arnold, the police raid the house, and Arnold and Jesse are charged with abusing the boys who came to the classes. It is one of the most unsettling documentaries we have seen, and its refusal to say what happened is mostly the right decision.

Jarecki has two archives. There are Arnold’s own home films, decades of birthdays and holidays and small boys in swimming trunks, which look like anyone’s until you know what came later. And there is the videotape David shot through the year of the case: his brothers at the dining table, his mother in the kitchen, himself in bed at night telling the camera what he cannot tell anyone else. Around these Jarecki sets his own interviews, shot by Adolfo Doring in plain rooms with soft light. Someone makes a claim, and then a tape, a photograph or another witness quietly disagrees.

The police come off worst. Frances Galasso, who ran the Sex Crimes Unit, remembers stacks of pornography around the house in plain view; Richard Hankin then cuts to the police photographs, and there are none. Anthony Sgueglia, the detective, describes interviewing children over many sessions and says nothing was written down. Joseph Onorato, the assistant district attorney, is serene about all of it. Ron Georgalis, who took the classes, says he saw nothing. John McDermott, the postal inspector who intercepted the magazine, lays out his sting step by step, and that part of the case is never in doubt.

The family is harder to watch. Elaine Friedman is the film’s most difficult presence: she will not play the loyal wife, she tells the camera things about her marriage that nobody asked, and on the old tapes her sons treat her as the enemy for it. David is still angry and still certain. Jesse, eighteen when he was charged, speaks now with a care the boy on the tapes did not have. Seth declined to take part and appears only in the archive. Howard Friedman, Arnold’s brother, remembers him as a boy, and his loyalty is total.

One morning before a court appearance, David films himself and Jesse dancing around the kitchen. We felt ill watching it, and it took us a while to work out why: not because they were laughing, but because the boys from the computer class are almost nowhere on any tape, and the film has to keep reminding us they exist.

Hankin’s cutting is where the film thinks. He rarely lets an interview run long; he puts a memory next to a document and lets the gap do the work, and when he wants us to sit with something he holds on David’s face. Andrea Morricone’s score is the one place the film leans. It arrives when a Friedman is alone on screen and stays quieter around the police, and it tells us to grieve a little earlier than we had decided to.

That is the caveat. The tagline asks who we believe, and the film presents itself as not knowing, but the evidence Jarecki shows is the evidence that undermines the prosecution. The magazine was real, and the film says so. What happened in the basement it keeps open, by giving the doubters the better material. We do not think that is dishonest. We do think a viewer should know it going in.

Films that reopen a criminal case usually know what they think and want you to sign something. This one asks for attention. Watch it with someone, because you will want to argue afterwards, and not late at night, because you will not sleep. It carries a 15 and earns it without showing anything worse than a family at dinner.

*Fi1m score 82, published 20 September 2026.*

## Straight answers

**Is Capturing the Friedmans worth watching?**

*Capturing the Friedmans* is worth watching for anyone with the patience for a documentary that refuses to settle its own case, and we scored it 82. It is one of the most unsettling documentaries we have seen, built from the family's own tapes. Watch it with someone, because you will want to argue afterwards.

**How long is Capturing the Friedmans, and what is it rated?**

*Capturing the Friedmans* runs 1h 47m. It is a documentary and crime film.

**Where can I watch Capturing the Friedmans in Lithuania?**

*Capturing the Friedmans* is not on any streaming or rental service in Lithuania at the moment. It is available in 10 other countries; change your country at the top of the page to see where. Availability is checked daily.

**How violent or frightening is Capturing the Friedmans, and is it suitable for children?**

*Capturing the Friedmans* carries a UK 15 and earns it without showing anything worse than a family at dinner. Its subject is a child abuse prosecution and it discusses child pornography plainly, though nothing of that kind is shown. It is not for children, and adults should not watch it late at night.

**How does Capturing the Friedmans compare to The Thin Blue Line?**

*Capturing the Friedmans* uses the method Errol Morris established in *The Thin Blue Line*: reopening a criminal case through interviews and letting the evidence contradict the witnesses. Morris's film knows what it thinks and argues it; Jarecki's presents itself as not knowing and leaves the case open. Morris made the model; Jarecki made the more unsettling film.

### Reviews we read (12)

- **The AV Club**, Scott Tobias (90/100, inferred): The critic calls the documentary extraordinary and a disquieting meditation on the elusive nature of truth. They praise Jarecki's skillful integration of home-video footage with interviews to explore family dissolution and ambiguity. [Read](https://www.avclub.com/capturing-the-friedmans-1798198561)
- **The New Yorker**, David Denby (90/100, inferred): The critic describes the documentary as an extraordinary meditation on perversion and truth and one of the most heartbreaking films ever made about an American family. He singles out its tact, dedication, respect for the mysteries of family life, and demonstration of the subjectivity of recollection through intercut interviews and home footage. [Read](https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2003/06/02/in-the-basement)
- **Empire**, Adam Smith (85/100, inferred): The critic praises the documentary as a unique and disturbing portrayal of a family imploding under allegations of abuse, captured through the family's own videos and interviews. It highlights the film's exploration of the elusiveness of truth, memory, and facts. [Read](https://www.empireonline.com/movies/reviews/capturing-friedmans-review/)
- **The Guardian**, Peter Bradshaw (80/100, inferred): The critic calls Jarecki's documentary compelling and horrifying, praising its intimate study of family denial, transgression, and the difficulty of pinning down truth amid shame and hysteria. It highlights the extraordinary home-video archive as both a treasure trove and part of the family's dysfunction. [Read](https://www.theguardian.com/arts/fridayreview/story/0,,1188240,00.html)
- **Evening Standard**, Will Self (75/100, inferred): The review describes the film as an exceedingly peculiar and multi-award-winning documentary that examines a family's disintegration through home videos and interviews, evoking an eerie sensation of sifting through evidence. It notes the collective hysteria and the fragmented family dynamic. [Read](https://standard.co.uk/culture/film/capturing-the-clown-7380424.html)
- **Screen Daily** (70/100, inferred): An engrossing, troubling and profoundly ambiguous re-examination of a child molestation case that deserved its Sundance grand jury prize. Jarecki maintains an unsentimental distance while piecing together the human story and subverting notions of truth. [Read](https://www.screendaily.com/capturing-the-friedmans/4012090.article)
- **Sight and Sound**, Xan Brooks (70/100, inferred): The film is a compelling documentary that mixes generations of home movies to portray a family in meltdown amid child abuse charges. It teases without overt judgment, influenced by Errol Morris, and leaves viewers with more questions than answers about truth and memory. [Read](http://old.bfi.org.uk/sightandsound/review/924)
- **The New York Times**, Elvis Mitchell (70/100, inferred): The critic calls the film a grim, watchable narrative about a family's decades-long tumble into shattering denial, lies and abuse. He praises its evenhanded and intelligent assembly of home movies and interviews that explore the American middle-class obsession with documenting daily life. [Read](https://www.nytimes.com/2003/05/30/movies/film-review-witness-to-a-family-s-slow-motion-collapse.html)
- **Variety**, Scott Foundas (70/100, inferred): The critic calls it a startling documentary that examines truth at odds with perception and the high price of privacy. He praises its tough, uncompromising approach, dense ambiguity, and the director's objective stance that forces viewers to ponder the events without easy judgments. [Read](https://variety.com/2003/film/awards/capturing-the-friedmans-3-1200543837/)
- **Slant Magazine**, Ed Gonzalez (50/100, inferred): The critic views the film as two works: a riveting chronicle of family demise and a less successful look at conspiracy theories around abuse cases. They single out the strong use of archival footage while criticizing literal-minded editing and occasional loss of objectivity. [Read](https://www.slantmagazine.com/film/capturing-the-friedmans/)
- **Time Out**, NB (50/100, inferred): This disturbing and compelling documentary presents one side of the story through police evidence and confessions, another through the family's own obsessive home videos, and a third through later interviews. There is ultimately no way of knowing the full truth of the case. [Read](https://www.timeout.com/movies/capturing-the-friedmans-2)
- **Eye for Film**, Trinity (70/100, inferred): The critic finds the documentary a moving, contradictory and masterful portrait of a dysfunctional family imploding under scandalous allegations. Jarecki's use of home movies and interviews effectively blurs perceptions of guilt and innocence, though the film's neutral stance slightly limits its emotional impact. [Read](https://www.eyeforfilm.co.uk/review/capturing-the-friedmans-film-review-by-trinity)

## Details

- **Director:** Andrew Jarecki
- **Director:** Andrew Jarecki
- **Cinematography:** Adolfo Doring
- **Editor:** Richard Hankin
- **Music:** Andrea Morricone
- **Producer:** Marc Smerling, Andrew Jarecki
- **Cast:** Arnold Friedman as Self (archive footage); Elaine Friedman as Self; David Friedman as Self; Jesse Friedman as Self; Seth Friedman as Self (archive footage); John McDermott as Self - Postal Inspector; Frances Galasso as Self - Ret. Director, Sex Crimes Unit; Anthony Sgueglia as Self - Detective, Sex Crimes Unit
- **Runtime:** 1h 47m
- **First release (the US):** 30 May 2003
- **Genres:** Documentary, Crime
- **Box office:** $4 million

## Where to watch in Lithuania

Not streaming, renting or buying in Lithuania at the last check.

Also available in: AR, AU, BR, CL, CO, EC, GB, MX, PA, PE. Add `?region=XX` to this URL for another country.

## Awards

- Academy Awards 2004: Best Documentary Feature Film (nominated)
- Sundance Film Festival Grand Jury Prize for Best Documentary 2003: Sundance Film Festival Grand Jury Prize for Best Documentary (won)

## If you liked this

- *The Thin Blue Line* (1988), Fi1m 90: Errol Morris reopens a Texas murder conviction with interviews and re-enactments; the method Jarecki learned from. — [Fi1m page](https://film.one/film/the-thin-blue-line.md)
- *Grey Gardens* (1975), Fi1m 86: A mother and daughter perform their decline for the Maysles brothers’ camera. — [Fi1m page](https://film.one/film/grey-gardens.md)
- *Stories We Tell* (2012), Fi1m 77: Sarah Polley turns the camera on her own family’s secret and finds every version differs. — [Fi1m page](https://film.one/film/stories-we-tell.md)
- *The Staircase* (2004): A French crew follows one murder trial for years; the verdict arrives and settles nothing.
- *The Imposter* (2012): A Texas family accepts a stranger as their missing son; you will trust nobody afterwards.

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