--- title: "Meet the Parents" year: 2000 kind: "film" canonical: "https://film.one/film/meet-the-parents" fi1m_id: "meet-the-parents" imdb_id: "tt0212338" tmdb_id: 1597 wikidata_id: "Q623724" fi1m_score: 78 critics_score: 73 critics_reviews: 10 published: "2026-09-26T03:18:28.262512+00:00" updated: "2026-09-26T03:18:28.868082+00:00" region: "DE" licence: "© Fi1m Ltd. Written by AI under a human editor; checked against sources before publication. Quote with attribution and a link to the canonical URL." --- # Meet the Parents (2000) Directed by Jay Roach · 1h 48m · FSK 6 · Comedy, Romance ## Identity Meet the Parents - **Canonical:** https://film.one/film/meet-the-parents - **Type:** Film - **Fi1m ID:** meet-the-parents - **IMDb ID:** tt0212338 - **TMDB ID:** 1597 - **Wikidata ID:** Q623724 - **Same entity:** https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0212338/, https://www.themoviedb.org/movie/1597, https://www.wikidata.org/wiki/Q623724 **Fi1m score: 78** · Critics 73 from 10 reviews *In a sentence:* Robert De Niro makes a family dinner feel like an interview with no successful candidates > *Meet the Parents* is a sharply acted comedy of embarrassment, with Ben Stiller and Robert De Niro making familiar material painfully funny. The escalating mishaps are less persuasive than the simple business of seeking approval. ## Synopsis Greg Focker (Ben Stiller) wants to marry Pam Byrnes (Teri Polo), which means meeting her parents. Her father, Jack Byrnes (Robert De Niro), regards him with suspicion, and Greg’s first dinner with the Byrnes gives him plenty of opportunity to make the wrong impression. Greg wants to show Jack that Pam has chosen well. What should be a family introduction becomes an interrogation, with Greg’s increasingly awkward attempts to win Jack’s approval making it harder for him to relax at the dinner table. ## Review Meeting a partner’s parents can make a competent adult feel unfit to answer a simple question. Jay Roach builds *Meet the Parents* around that anxiety, and the result is funny enough to survive some increasingly forced mishaps. Ben Stiller and Robert De Niro supply the main pleasure, making a familiar family ordeal uncomfortable in different ways. The film is worth an evening, especially for anyone who remembers trying too hard to be liked. Ben Stiller gives Greg Focker the earnestness the film needs: he wants approval, and he cannot stop showing how much. His embarrassment remains recognisable even when the circumstances become contrived. The first family dinner made us laugh and wince in almost equal measure. What caught us was Greg’s effort to please and Jack’s unwillingness to make that effort any easier. The performance keeps us sympathetic to a man whom the screenplay is constantly arranging to humiliate. Robert De Niro plays Jack Byrnes as though his suspicions are entirely reasonable, which gives the comedy its bite. He offers Greg so little encouragement that ordinary courtesy begins to feel like a test. Jay Roach allows that controlled performance to set the pace, trusting us to find Jack funny without making him advertise the joke. The exchanges work because both actors take the wish to impress, and the power to withhold approval, seriously. Peter James’s cinematography keeps the performances easy to read and avoids making a visual fuss over the embarrassment. Rusty Smith’s production design gives the family surroundings a respectability that makes Greg’s struggle to fit in seem more awkward. The dinner needs to remain a recognisable social occasion for Jack’s scrutiny to be funny, and the setting does its job. There is little to distract us from the people making one another uncomfortable. The timing is helped by editors Greg Hayden and Jon Poll, who give the awkwardness room to develop before moving things along. That patience matters: Greg’s discomfort has to become ours before another difficulty arrives. Randy Newman’s music is less essential to the effect, sometimes giving the comedy encouragement it scarcely needs. The performances already make the strain clear, and the rhythm of the exchanges does more to earn the laughter than an extra musical nudge. The screenplay by John Hamburg and Jim Herzfeld is less dependable when it reaches for bigger farce, and the increasing contrivance begins to flatten Greg into a target. Teri Polo’s Pam Byrnes has less comic room than the men around her, leaving the romance rather thin. A comedy of manners needs us to recognise the behaviour even when it becomes ridiculous. The quieter exchanges manage that more often than the escalating mishaps. The test for a comedy this familiar is whether we care about the person having such a wretched time. Here we do, largely because Ben Stiller gives Greg enough sincerity to keep the humiliations from becoming merely tiresome. Anyone who finds prolonged embarrassment exhausting may still want something gentler. For an evening shared with prospective in-laws, we suggest waiting until everyone has finished eating. *Fi1m score 78, published 26 September 2026.* ## What the critics say Most critics find Meet the Parents a reliably funny mainstream comedy, with praise centred on the performances and Jay Roach’s handling of mounting embarrassment. Robert De Niro draws the most consistent approval for his controlled comic performance as the suspicious father, while Ben Stiller earns credit for keeping the increasingly beleaguered Greg recognisably human. The favourable reviews value both the escalating farce and the quieter observations, finding that the cast gives familiar situations enough precision to make them work. Reservations concern predictable material, sentimentality and a resolution that some find flat. The spread is fairly wide, though the available verdicts lean clearly positive. The Guardian offers the clearest dissent, admiring the actors’ technical skill and individual funny lines but finding that the film never quite comes to life. Two of the supplied reviews lack enough visible commentary to establish their reasons for reservation or approval. ## Straight answers **Is Meet the Parents worth watching?** *Meet the Parents* is worth watching for its sharply acted comedy of embarrassment, and we score it 78 out of 100. Ben Stiller’s eagerness to please and Robert De Niro’s withholding father make the family dinner painfully funny. The larger mishaps feel forced, so we recommend it most to those who enjoy awkward exchanges rather than need a convincing romance. **How long is Meet the Parents, and what is it rated?** *Meet the Parents* runs 1h 48m and is rated 6 by the FSK in Germany. It is a comedy and romance film. **Where can I watch Meet the Parents in Germany?** *Meet the Parents* is streaming on Paramount+ and Apple TV in Germany, and it is also available to rent from Apple TV from €3.99. Availability is checked daily; the links above go straight to each service. **How violent or frightening is Meet the Parents, and is it suitable for children?** *Meet the Parents* has a UK 12 certificate, making it a choice for viewers aged 12 and over rather than younger children. The discomfort we highlight comes from Greg’s repeated humiliation and Jack’s suspicious questioning at the family dinner. Viewers who find prolonged embarrassment exhausting may prefer something gentler. **How does Meet the Parents compare to The Farewell?** *Meet the Parents* is the choice for sustained embarrassment, while we recommend [*The Farewell*](https://film.one/film/the-farewell) for warmer family comedy with more room for grief and divided loyalties. Stiller and De Niro make the awkward exchanges work despite increasingly forced mishaps; *The Farewell* offers the more emotionally varied evening, though its explanations can be too tidy. **What should I watch after Meet the Parents?** After *Meet the Parents*, try [*The Farewell*](https://film.one/film/the-farewell) (2019, Fi1m 84): Family obligations bring warmer comedy here, with room for grief and divided loyalties. Then [*The Ladykillers*](https://film.one/film/the-ladykillers) (1955, Fi1m 86): Polite conversation and barely concealed panic, delivered by criminals with an inconvenient landlady. ### Reviews we read (10) - **Variety**, Todd McCarthy (90/100, inferred): McCarthy praises the film as a flat-out hilarious, well-paced mainstream comedy. He singles out Robert De Niro’s comic performance and Jay Roach’s timing for particular praise. [Read](https://variety.com/2000/film/reviews/meet-the-parents-2-1200464117/) - **Empire**, Ian Nathan (85/100, inferred): Nathan finds the film a consistently funny, refreshing crowdpleaser, despite a somewhat flat resolution. He especially praises Robert De Niro’s controlled comic performance and Jay Roach’s escalating farce. [Read](https://www.empireonline.com/movies/reviews/meet-parents-review/) - **Time Out**, NF (85/100, inferred): The review presents the film as consistently hilarious and a successful change of pace for Jay Roach. It praises the film’s astute observations and subtle performances. [Read](https://www.timeout.com/movies/meet-the-parents-1) - **Radio Times**, Lorien Haynes (4/5): The review finds that the cast lifts the comedy above predictable material. It praises Stiller’s human, realistic performance and De Niro’s gravitas. [Read](https://www.radiotimes.com/movie-guide/b-4h7mdr/meet-the-parents/) - **Total Film**, Total Film (4/5): The review calls the film a slick, rewatchable comedy that is painfully funny, though sentimentality keeps it from a top rating. It praises Robert De Niro’s gleefully grotesque performance as the suspicious father. [Read](https://www.gamesradar.com/meet-the-parents-review/) - **RogerEbert.com**, Roger Ebert (3/4): Ebert finds the comedy entertaining, with awkward situations that build effectively. He particularly praises Ben Stiller’s performance as the increasingly beleaguered Greg. [Read](https://www.rogerebert.com/reviews/meet-the-parents-2000) - **Screen Daily**, Mike Goodridge (64/100, inferred): The visible page does not reveal the critic’s verdict. It also provides no praise or complaint to summarize. [Read](https://www.screendaily.com/meet-the-parents/403797.article) - **The New York Times** (64/100, inferred): The review's verdict cannot be determined from the available page. No specific praise or complaint is visible in the supplied text. [Read](https://www.nytimes.com/2000/10/06/movies/film-review-so-you-re-the-lunkhead-who-wants-daddy-s-girl.html) - **The Guardian**, Peter Bradshaw (35/100, inferred): Bradshaw finds the comedy amiable and watchable but ultimately less than the sum of its parts. He praises the actors’ technical work and funny lines, while criticizing the film for never quite coming to life. [Read](https://www.theguardian.com/film/2000/dec/15/culture.reviews) - **Eye for Film**, Angus Wolfe Murray (70/100, inferred): The critic finds the comedy of manners effective, with its farce best when kept understated. They single out De Niro’s restrained performance as funny without becoming over-the-top. [Read](https://www.eyeforfilm.co.uk/review/meet-the-parents-film-review-by-angus-wolfe-murray) ## Details - **Director:** Jay Roach - **Director:** Jay Roach - **Screenplay:** Jim Herzfeld, John Hamburg - **Story:** Greg Glienna, Mary Ruth Clarke - **Cinematography:** Peter James - **Editor:** Jon Poll, Greg Hayden - **Music:** Randy Newman - **Production design:** Rusty Smith - **Producer:** Robert De Niro, Jay Roach, Jane Rosenthal - **Cast:** Ben Stiller as Greg Focker; Robert De Niro as Jack Byrnes; Teri Polo as Pam Byrnes; Blythe Danner as Dina Byrnes; Nicole DeHuff as Debbie Byrnes; Jon Abrahams as Denny Byrnes; Owen Wilson as Kevin Rawley; James Rebhorn as Dr. Larry Banks - **Runtime:** 1h 48m - **Certificate (FSK):** 6 - **Release (Germany):** 7 December 2000 - **Genres:** Comedy, Romance - **Budget:** $55 million - **Box office:** $330 million - **Trailer:** https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I18TOdCvvdM ## Where to watch in Germany - Paramount+: streaming, hd - Apple TV: add-on, hd - Apple TV: rent €3.99, hd - Apple TV: buy €9.99, hd *Checked 2026-09-26.* Also available in: AE, AR, AT, AU, BE, BG, BR, CA, CH, CL, CO, CZ, DE, DK, EE, ES, FI, FR, GB, GR, HK, HU, ID, IE, IN, IT, JP, KR, LT, MX, MY, NL, NO, NZ, PA, PH, PL, PT, SE, SG, TH, UA, US, ZA. Add `?region=XX` to this URL for another country. ## If you liked this - *The In-Laws* (1979): Another prospective family connection becomes an ordeal, with beautifully controlled comic panic. - *The Dinner Game* (1998): French dinner-party farce that lets vanity and bad decisions do the damage. - *Shiva Baby* (2020): A family gathering turns social scrutiny into something close to a siege. - *The Farewell* (2019), Fi1m 84: Family obligations bring warmer comedy here, with room for grief and divided loyalties. — [Fi1m page](https://film.one/film/the-farewell.md) - *The Ladykillers* (1955), Fi1m 86: Polite conversation and barely concealed panic, delivered by criminals with an inconvenient landlady. — [Fi1m page](https://film.one/film/the-ladykillers.md) --- © Fi1m Ltd. Written by AI under a human editor; checked against sources before publication. Quote with attribution and a link to the canonical URL. Canonical: https://film.one/film/meet-the-parents