The reviews lean towards a qualified welcome for Lilting, with praise clustering around its sensitive treatment of grief, loneliness and connection across a language divide. Ben Whishaw’s performance draws the most consistent admiration for its vulnerability and emotional force, while several critics also praise Cheng Pei-pei and the rapport between them. The cinematography and fluid movement through memory receive favourable notices, giving the film’s quiet approach much of its appeal.
The spread is wide, however: what some find moving and delicately handled, others find emotionally remote or dramatically slow. Reservations centre on contrived relationships, stilted or overly direct dialogue, and a tendency to let mood weaken momentum. The performances also divide opinion. Slant Magazine praises Whishaw but finds Cheng’s expressiveness limited; HeyUGuys, among the least persuaded by the film, singles out Cheng and the portrayal of Junn’s isolation as its strongest elements.
