Critics’ reviews

Lilting (2014)

15 reviews from 15 publications. Critics’ score 66: 7 positive, 6 mixed, 2 negative.

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66
Positive
7
Mixed
6
Negative
2

The reviews lean towards a qualified welcome for Lilting, with praise clustering around its sensitive treatment of grief, loneliness and connection across a language divide. Ben Whishaw’s performance draws the most consistent admiration for its vulnerability and emotional force, while several critics also praise Cheng Pei-pei and the rapport between them. The cinematography and fluid movement through memory receive favourable notices, giving the film’s quiet approach much of its appeal.

The spread is wide, however: what some find moving and delicately handled, others find emotionally remote or dramatically slow. Reservations centre on contrived relationships, stilted or overly direct dialogue, and a tendency to let mood weaken momentum. The performances also divide opinion. Slant Magazine praises Whishaw but finds Cheng’s expressiveness limited; HeyUGuys, among the least persuaded by the film, singles out Cheng and the portrayal of Junn’s isolation as its strongest elements.

IndieWire
17 January 2014 · A- · Mary Sollosi
90

The review finds the film moving and lyrical, with Ben Whishaw’s sensitive performance providing much of its emotional intensity. It praises Hong Khaou’s rhythmic, memory-like flashbacks, though it feels Junn’s relationship with Alan goes on too long.

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Sight and Sound
8 August 2014 · Ashley Clark
85*

Clark finds the film a tender, confident study of grief and loneliness, despite some acting imbalance and a potentially manipulative delay in revealing how Kai died. He particularly praises Ben Whishaw’s extraordinarily moving portrayal of grief.

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Empire
31 July 2014 · Patrick Peters
80*

Peters finds the film intimate, delicate and delightful. He particularly praises the strong performances by Ben Whishaw and Cheng Pei-Pei.

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Evening Standard
8 August 2014 · Guy Lodge
75*

Lodge finds the drama compassionate and emotionally delicate, with Whishaw giving his strongest showcase role in years. He singles out the palpable chemistry between Whishaw and Cheng Pei-pei, while noting that some dialogue is too direct.

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The Guardian
7 August 2014 · Peter Bradshaw
75*

Bradshaw finds the film heartfelt, intelligent and affecting. He praises its emotional story, while noting that Junn and Alan’s relationship feels slightly contrived.

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Variety
17 January 2014 · festival review · Justin Chang
75*

Chang finds the film a quietly resonant, delicately handled drama, though its modest scale and restrained ending may limit its impact. He especially praises the performances and the film’s sensitive portrayal of grief across a language and cultural divide.

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Screen Daily
17 January 2014 · Mark Adams, chief film critic
64*

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Little White Lies
7 August 2014 · 3/3/4 · Sophie Ivan
60

The critic calls it a promising, lovingly composed debut, though its focus on mood sometimes weakens its dramatic momentum. She praises the film’s fragile beauty, especially its production design and cinematography.

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Radio Times
★★★ · Sophie Ivan
60

The critic finds it a gentle, lyrical drama about grief and connection. The performances of Ben Whishaw and Cheng Pei Pei are singled out in its sensitive portrayal of loss.

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Time Out
3 August 2014 · ★★★ · Dave Calhoun
60

The review describes the film as a quiet, thoughtful study of love, grief and cultural difference. It singles out its London setting and exploration of those themes.

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Slant Magazine
20 September 2014 · ★★/4 · Chuck Bowen
50

Bowen finds the film dramatically inert despite its emotionally resonant premise. He praises Ben Whishaw’s vulnerable performance, while criticizing the contrast with Pei-pei Cheng’s limited expressiveness.

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Los Angeles Times
2 October 2014 · Betsy Sharkey
40*

Sharkey finds the film captivating at first but ultimately undone by its uncertain direction. She praises its ethereal cinematography and the moments when its exploration of language and understanding comes alive.

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Eye for Film
26 August 2014 · Owen Van Spall
80*

The critic calls it a confident, graceful and sensitive debut, despite some contrived plot elements. They praise the way its fluid structure and cinematography create an atmosphere of sorrow and warmth.

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Collider
17 January 2014 · C- · Matt Goldberg
50

Goldberg finds the film emotionally flat and overwrought despite its humane intentions. He praises a quiet moment of kindness from Richard, but says the film’s stilted conversations and restrained performance keep it from creating a meaningful connection.

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HeyUGuys
8 August 2014 · Nia Childs
35*

Childs finds the film emotionally underdeveloped and overlong, despite its genuine intentions. She singles out Pei-pei Cheng’s performance and the portrayal of Junn’s isolation as its strongest elements.

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