Most critics welcome Rachel Getting Married as a warm, sometimes painful family drama, with praise centred on Anne Hathaway’s performance as the troubled Kym. The reviews find her convincing in the character’s neediness, self-loathing and capacity to disrupt her sister’s wedding, while also crediting the ensemble with making the family tensions feel real. Jonathan Demme’s loose, handheld staging earns broad approval for its intimacy, and the music and wedding celebrations bring welcome warmth to the conflict.
Reservations centre on length and focus, particularly when the celebrations stretch out. Sight and Sound finds the wedding sequence overextended, while Slant sees a conventional family-dysfunction screenplay made more interesting by Demme’s staging and communal scenes. The spread is mostly favourable rather than evenly divided: IndieWire offers a clear dissent, rejecting the approach to family drama and performance that most critics find persuasive.
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Time Out
20 January 2009 · ★★★★★ · Tom Huddleston
100
Demme returns to freewheeling indie form with an intimate, participatory comedy-drama that overwhelms through its captured-reality technique and diegetic music. It is long and unfocused but exhilarating for those who surrender to it.
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The AV Club
2 October 2008 · Scott Tobias
85*
Demme is at his most humane, capturing warmth and compassion amid family tensions without villains. The film harnesses genuine love and good feeling at the wedding, making it a vibrant, moving party despite underlying pain.
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Evening Standard
10 April 2012
80*
The critic praises Anne Hathaway's loose-limbed, self-loathing performance as the havoc-wreaking ex-junkie Kym alongside Jonathan Demme's unrehearsed, home-movie approach to filming the family wedding weekend. Strong turns from Debra Winger, Bill Irwin and Rosemarie DeWitt are highlighted, as is the film's shifting incidental music that heightens emotional beats.
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Little White Lies
22 January 2009 · 2/4/4 · Ellen E Jones
80
Hathaway delivers a sensational turn as the troubled Kym in this warm, observant family drama full of moving and funny moments. The script excels at depicting family dynamics and roles, making it an unpretentious and inviting watch despite some longueurs.
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Screen Daily
3 September 2008 · festival review
80*
Hand-held and spontaneous, the film pays tribute to Altman with superb performances, especially Hathaway, though its length and musical interludes may limit commercial appeal. It feels fresh and assured overall.
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The Hollywood Reporter
2 September 2008 · festival review · Deborah Young
80*
Demme brings honest cinema and lightness of touch to family conflict, balancing smiles and tears at a wedding. Hathaway delivers an award-worthy central performance that gives the script room to avoid genre clichés.
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Slant Magazine
19 September 2008 · ★★★/4 · Andrew Schenker
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Demme offsets the screenplay's conventional suburban dysfunction with disorienting handheld staging and warm communal set pieces. The split between drab narrative and celebratory wedding warmth works in the film's favor, leaving viewers with a generous embrace of humanity.
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IndieWire
1 October 2008 · Michael Koresky
30*
The review takes a negative stance on Demme's film, declining to embrace its approach to family drama and performance.
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Los Angeles Times
3 October 2008 · Kenneth Turan
The critic welcomes the film as a return to Demme's independent roots and praises Hathaway's career-changing turn as the ultra-troubled Kym, along with the ensemble's edgy realism. It singles out the mix of bitter and sweet elements, with music providing joy amid family turmoil.
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Sight and Sound
1 February 2009 · Philip Kemp
The film is both a loose, freewheeling return to form and overextended self-indulgence. It excels in tracking family tensions through restless camerawork and strong performances but loses focus in its lengthy celebratory wedding sequence.
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The Guardian
23 January 2009 · Peter Bradshaw
The critic praises Demme's loose, home-movie style and the authentic, overemotional performances that make the family dynamics feel real. Hathaway excels as the needy, limelight-seeking recovering addict who opens old wounds at her sister's wedding.
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The New York Times
3 October 2008 · A.O. Scott
The critic notes that the film centers on the troubled younger sister Kym despite the title, praising Anne Hathaway's magnetic and un-princessy performance as a damaged, narcissistic figure. It highlights the movie's authentic vitality and expansive sympathies amid familiar themes of addiction and family dysfunction.
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The Times
25 January 2009 · Edward Porter
The critic highlights Hathaway's fine, convincing performance as the selfish, self-deprecating Kym and praises the excellent cast and Demme's fizzy, skilful staging of the wedding proceedings and family tensions.
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Paste
3 October 2008 · Robert Davis
85*
The film is a strong, authentic portrait of family dynamics that succeeds through its patient, documentary-like structure and ensemble performances. Hathaway's fierce yet nuanced turn as the troubled Kym stands out as a highlight amid the wedding celebrations and emotional tensions.
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Eye for Film
26 January 2009 · Chris
80*
The critic finds the film an honest, intense family drama with documentary-like realism that rewards viewers seeking substance over rom-com formulas. They single out Anne Hathaway's raw, unadorned performance as the standout element that makes the story compelling despite its challenges.
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