Critics’ reviews

Tótem (2023)

16 reviews from 16 publications. Critics’ score 84: 15 positive, 1 mixed, 0 negative.

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84
Positive
15
Mixed
1
Negative
0

The reviews are close to unanimous. Fifteen of the sixteen critics are positive, and they agree on what the film is: a tender drama about a family gathered around a dying father that never turns into a tearjerker. The praise gathers around Lila Avilés’s direction and her camera, which most critics describe as restless and observant, moving through the crowded house at a child’s height and picking out small, solitary moments in the commotion. Several single out Naíma Sentíes as the young lead and the naturalistic ensemble around her, and many note that the film is funnier and livelier than its subject would suggest.

The spread is narrow. The only mixed score belongs to The New York Times, whose review could not be read, so it may not be a dissent at all. The cooler notices, from Eye for Film, Deadline and Paste, still find the film moving; they simply admire it a little less, and Eye for Film suggests the family gathering feels carefully arranged. Nobody calls it sentimental.

The Guardian
3 December 2023 · ★★★★★ · Wendy Ide
100

Ide calls the film an exquisite, tender ensemble drama that balances grief with joy and love. She praises its child-height perspective and the camera’s lyrical, observant movement through the family home.

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IndieWire
29 January 2024 · A · David Opie
95

Opie calls the film a bittersweet, quietly transformative celebration of life amid loss. He particularly praises its child’s-eye perspective and cinematography, which turns a family’s day into fleeting, memory-like moments.

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Los Angeles Times
1 February 2024 · Justin Chang
90*

Chang finds the film quietly devastating, praising its intimate, unsentimental portrait of a family gathered around a dying father. He singles out Avilés’ restless camera and sharp observation of the house’s crowded human and animal life.

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Vulture
26 January 2024 · Alison Willmore
90*

Willmore praises Tótem as a tender, vivid family drama that makes a goodbye gathering feel organic and deeply affecting. She singles out the fluid camera work and the film’s openhearted balance of love, pain, death, and life.

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Slant Magazine
19 March 2023 · ★★★½/4 · Gregory Nussen
88

Nussen praises the film as an unexpectedly beautiful, tender portrait of a family facing impending loss. He singles out its tactile, fly-on-the-wall style and the way Sol’s perspective illuminates the family’s grief.

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Variety
24 February 2023 · Critic's Pick · Peter Debruge
86*

Debruge praises the film as an intimate, emotionally rich portrait of a family confronting mortality, without resorting to overt sentimentality. He particularly highlights its lifelike, lived-in family dynamics and the emotional force of the farewell gathering.

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Sight and Sound
7 March 2023 · festival review · BFI
85*

The critic finds the film exuberantly lovely and emotionally affecting without becoming a tearjerker. They especially praise Avilés’s lively direction and the camera’s ability to capture both family commotion and intimate grief.

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The Hollywood Reporter
21 February 2023 · festival review · Leslie Felperin
85*

Felperin finds the film noisy, joyous, and richly rewarding, with an emotional impact that exceeds its brief runtime. She praises Naima Senties’s naturalistic performance and Avilés’s skill in shaping the family gathering’s apparent chaos.

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The New Yorker
19 January 2024 · Anthony Lane
85*

Lane finds Tótem a sad, lively, and often funny portrait of a family facing a father’s impending death. He praises Avilés’s attentive camera, which notices solitary figures and small moments amid the crowded gathering.

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Little White Lies
festival review · Marina Ashioti
80*

Ashioti finds the film affecting, lyrical and warmly buoyant despite its profound sadness. She praises the naturalistic ensemble and the young lead performance, alongside the film’s tactile symbolism and sensory craft.

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Screen Daily
20 February 2023 · festival review · Jonathan Romney
70*

Romney’s standfirst presents the film as an elegant drama about a family in crisis. The visible text singles out its elegance, while the review’s full discussion is behind a paywall.

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The New York Times
64*

The page is blocked, so the critic’s verdict cannot be determined. No praise or complaint from the review is visible.

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The Playlist
festival review
90*

The review appears strongly positive, presenting the film as a moving portrait of love in the face of grief. It singles out the intimate microcosm Avilés builds around that profound love.

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Paste
25 January 2024 · 7.9/10 · Anna McKibbin
79

McKibbin praises Tótem as a nuanced, empathetic view of childhood amid grief. She singles out Naíma Sentíes’ performance and Avilés’ close-up, child-centered filmmaking for bringing Sol’s perspective to life.

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Deadline
15 December 2023 · Stephanie Bunbury
78*

Bunbury finds the film moving without resorting to sentimentality. She especially praises Avilés’s extraordinary eye for detail and the close, observant camera work.

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Eye for Film
22 February 2023 · Amber Wilkinson
75*

Wilkinson finds the film warmly poignant and sweetly comic, with its family gathering carefully orchestrated. She praises Avilés’ handling of the different emotional worlds of children and adults.

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