Most critics find The 40 Year-Old Virgin funny and warm, with praise centred on Steve Carell’s ability to make its inexperienced hero sympathetic without softening the lewd comedy. The reviews also credit Catherine Keener and the supporting cast with giving the relationships some substance. For the more enthusiastic critics, Judd Apatow combines gross-out gags with recognisable observations about dating and male friendship, allowing the romance to matter beyond the jokes.
The reservations range from a need for trimming to objections about the film’s attitudes towards race and sexuality. Several reviews find it overlong or uneven, while The AV Club argues that the raunch and the sensitive romance work at cross purposes. Slant Magazine is more sceptical, finding tired stereotypes and conservative romanticism beneath the sexual frankness; Variety likewise objects to homophobic humour and juvenile excess. Carell’s performance remains a point of agreement even among the less persuaded critics.
