Critics’ reviews

When Harry Met Sally... (1989)

14 reviews from 14 publications. Critics’ score 79: 9 positive, 2 mixed, 1 negative.

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Mixed
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Most critics respond warmly to When Harry Met Sally…, with praise centred on Nora Ephron’s sharp dialogue and the ease of Billy Crystal and Meg Ryan’s performances. The favourable reviews find wit and emotional understanding in its treatment of sex, dating and friendship, crediting Rob Reiner’s sympathetic direction with giving the conversations room to work. New York’s locations and the jazz soundtrack also draw praise for making the romance inviting without overwhelming the characters.

The disagreement is substantial rather than a matter of minor reservations. Empire questions both the credibility of the central friendship and how far the film pursues its premise, while still enjoying its humour and setting. The New York Times finds amusing lines but too much sentimentality and familiarity. The New Yorker is the strongest dissenter, seeing thinly developed characters and sitcom routines where most critics find convincing intimacy.

Radio Times
★★★★★ · Robyn Karney
100

The review praises the perfect teaming of Meg Ryan and Billy Crystal in this romantic comedy about whether men and women can be friends without sex. It highlights the glitzy New York locations, beguiling soundtrack and expert, irresistible escapist entertainment.

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Time Out
11 December 2015 · ★★★★★ · Tom Huddleston
100

The critic declares the film perfect and Nora Ephron’s finest work, praising its flawless script, central performances, New York photography and jazz soundtrack. Everything works in this pitch-perfect romantic comedy.

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Los Angeles Times
14 July 1989 · Sheila Benson
90*

Director Rob Reiner and screenwriter Nora Ephron deliver a witty, affectionate look at modern romance and marriage through sparkling dialogue and character growth over 11 years. The film stands out as the summer's unqualified delight with its hopeful tone and memorable scenes.

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RogerEbert.com
12 July 1989 · Roger Ebert
85*

The film is a sunny, witty love story about two people who take 12 years to realize they are meant for each other. It benefits from strong chemistry between Billy Crystal and Meg Ryan and Nora Ephron's sharp dialogue.

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Little White Lies
11 December 2015 · 3/4/4 · Glenn Heath Jr
80

The review calls the film a cynically lovely and whip-smart archetype for the modern rom-com that remains fresh despite countless imitators. It singles out Ephron’s playful script exploring contradictions in romance and the intimate, lived-in performances.

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Sight and Sound
· Pam Cook
80*

The critic admires Nora Ephron’s acerbic writing and Rob Reiner’s intimate, sympathetic direction of the central characters. She highlights the film’s playful nostalgia for classic Hollywood romances alongside its 1980s melancholy and the memorable fake-orgasm scene.

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The Guardian
10 December 2015
80*

The critic calls the film a 1989 gem that re-invented the metropolitan romantic comedy by blending sharp dialogue with emotional literacy. The famous fake-orgasm scene and the script’s handling of sex, dating and friendship are singled out as highlights that still make it a treat.

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Empire
1 January 2011 · David Hepworth
65*

The critic notes that the film's central theme is not pushed far enough to be gripping and questions the believability of the central friendship and chemistry between leads. That said, Reiner is praised as an un-neurotic filmmaker and the film is celebrated for its New York setting and enduring appeal as a funny, cheerfully vulgar romantic comedy that frames the sexual dilemmas of its era.

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The New York Times
12 July 1989 · Caryn James
60*

Rob Reiner's film is a cute, sentimental sitcom-like version of a Woody Allen romance, full of amusing lines but hollow and reliant on deja vu. It romanticizes the lives of neurotic New Yorkers while debating whether men and women can be friends.

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The New Yorker
31 July 1989 · Terrence Rafferty
40*

The movie inflates a screwball idea into a shallow, self-satisfied sitcom that strings together shtick instead of delivering genuine craft or plot. It reaches for sincerity but ends up phony, with characters left underdeveloped despite the cast's efforts.

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The Hollywood Reporter
28 December 2016 · Duane Byrge

The critic calls the film a beautiful, brainy, touching and lilting romantic comedy that should touch the heartstrings of lovers everywhere. Reiner’s direction is praised as gracefully and powerfully accenting Ephron’s script, with strong praise for the performances of Crystal and Ryan.

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Variety
31 December 1988 · ** · Variety Staff

Nora Ephron's script cuddles up to audiences with unrelenting cuteness about platonic friendship turning romantic, aided by Rob Reiner's deft direction. The material engages until plot mechanics make it feel shapeless, with the only unpredictability being the long wait for the couple to connect.

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Collider
8 August 2022 · Meredith Loftus
90*

The critic praises Ephron's realistic dialogue and the natural chemistry between Crystal and Ryan as they portray a decades-long friendship turning romantic. The iconic deli scene and the film's timeless New York love story are highlighted as enduring strengths.

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Digital Spy
16 December 2015 · Ali Plumb
90*

The critic calls it quite simply one of the best romantic comedies ever made, praising its sharp script, strong lead chemistry, and memorable scenes like the deli fake orgasm.

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