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A film to watch with my parents

The Eternal Daughter is the film to watch first with parents who value quiet company and a little reflection afterwards.

It is a slow, well-made ghost story about a mother and daughter who still struggle to speak plainly to one another. Hogg places them in a single house and lets the silences do the work; the result is sadder and more pointed once you know her earlier films about the same pair. Watch it at home with the lights low and the phone elsewhere, then ring your mother if you still can 1.

My Father's Shadow takes a gentler route into family memory. A first-time director lingers on the small waits and ordinary days of a remembered childhood, and the film has more feeling than most of its kind. It runs 93 minutes and carries a 12A, so it suits an evening when everyone is content to sit still 2.

The Fabelmans gives the same territory a larger canvas. Spielberg looks back at his own parents with honesty and generosity, and the performances from Williams and Dano keep the household recognisable. At 151 minutes it asks for more time, but the domestic detail rewards it 3.

After these, avoid The Son. It returns to parents and children yet leaves the child with little life beyond the crisis, and the evening feels thinner for it 4.

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  1. 1 The Eternal Daughter (2022) · Fi1m 76The Eternal Daughter (2022). Against the Souvenir films this is a coda rather than a third chapter. Without them it is a well-made, slow ghost story with one clever performance. With them it is sadder, because you have already watched this mother and daughter fail to say things t
  2. 2 My Father's Shadow (2025) · Fi1m 81My Father's Shadow (2025). Most critics have been warmer still, and we understand why; films about a remembered childhood are usually forgiven a little drift, and this one has more feeling in it than most. We would only say that the drift is there and that a first-time director w
  3. 3 The Fabelmans (2022) · Fi1m 76The Fabelmans (2022). Fi1m review standfirst: Spielberg’s account of his own childhood is honest about his parents, generous to almost everyone and finely acted by Michelle Williams and Paul Dano. It is also 151 minutes long and knows exactly how it wants to be remembered. Worth
  4. 4 The Son (2022) · Fi1m 43The Son (2022). There is a place for films about parents who cannot understand what their children are experiencing, and they need not provide solutions. They do need to give the child a life beyond the crisis, particularly when that crisis is the reason everyone else has a part.

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