Kinds of Kindness poster

Kinds of Kindness

2024 · Directed by Yorgos Lanthimos
2h 44mComedyDrama18
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Fi1m score
64
Critics · 25
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Synopsis

Three stories, one cast. In the first, Robert (Jesse Plemons) works for Raymond (Willem Dafoe), who decides what he eats, what he reads and when he sleeps with his wife (Hong Chau); a new instruction makes Robert hesitate. In the second, a policeman (Plemons) waits for his wife Liz (Emma Stone), a marine researcher lost at sea, and does not believe the woman who comes home is her. In the third, Emily (Stone) and Andrew (Plemons) search on behalf of a cult for a woman who can raise the dead. Margaret Qualley, Mamoudou Athie and Joe Alwyn take different roles in each. Yorgos Lanthimos directs from a script written with Efthimis Filippou. It runs 164 minutes, certificate 18.

Fi1m review

In a sentenceWillem Dafoe decides what Jesse Plemons eats, reads and does in bed

Lanthimos reunites with Efthimis Filippou for three cold fables about doing as you are told, and the first is as sharp as anything he has made. The other two repeat its lesson, and 164 minutes is a long time to be taught one thing.

Yorgos Lanthimos has followed Poor Things with something closer to the films that first got him noticed. Kinds of Kindness is three stories of roughly fifty minutes each, played by the same handful of actors in different parts, and each is about a person who has handed their life to someone else and is now finding out what that costs. He wrote it with Efthimis Filippou, who wrote Dogtooth and The Lobster with him, and the tone is theirs: flat, exact, and funny in a way that makes you check whether anyone else in the room is laughing. The first story is as good as anything Lanthimos has made. The other two say the same thing again, and the whole runs 164 minutes.

Robert (Jesse Plemons) works for Raymond (Willem Dafoe), who decides what Robert eats, what he reads, how much he weighs and when he sleeps with his wife, Sarah (Hong Chau). Robert has agreed to all of this and believes he is happy. Then Raymond gives him a new instruction, involving a car and a stranger, and Robert hesitates for the first time. Plemons plays him with a small fixed smile and eyes that keep sliding towards Dafoe for approval, and we laughed, often and a little uneasily, at how completely the smile stops working once the approval is withdrawn. Dafoe, meanwhile, is all warmth: the tyrant as a fond uncle, handing out gifts and never once raising his voice.

The second story gives Plemons a policeman, Daniel, whose wife Liz (Emma Stone), a marine researcher, has been lost at sea. She comes home. Daniel decides she is not his wife: her feet are the wrong size for her shoes, she eats chocolate when she used to refuse it. Stone plays Liz as a woman so afraid of losing him that she will agree to anything, and Lanthimos tests exactly how far that goes. There is a scene at a kitchen table, some way into this section, that we watched through our fingers and will not describe. It is the one point in the film where the cruelty is plainly about something, and it works because Robbie Ryan’s camera stays on Stone’s face rather than on what her hands are doing.

The third story is the longest and the slackest. Emily (Stone) and Andrew (Plemons) drive around town for a cult led by Omi (Dafoe) and Aka (Chau), looking for a woman who can raise the dead; Emily has left a husband (Joe Alwyn) and a small daughter to do it, and Margaret Qualley turns up as twins, one of whom may be the woman they want. The premise is the best of the three and the film does the least with it. The point about obedience has already been made twice, and Lanthimos fills the extra time with rituals, a sauna and a swimming pool, none of which tell us anything the first hour did not.

Ryan, after the fisheye lenses and candlelight of Poor Things, shoots this straight: wide lenses, hard daylight, beige offices and hospital corridors. Anthony Gasparro’s rooms are anonymous on purpose, the sort of American interiors where nothing is older than the carpet, and Jennifer Johnson puts Robert in suits so neat they look chosen by somebody else, which they were. Jerskin Fendrix’s score is the funniest thing here after Plemons: single piano chords struck too hard, a choir that bursts in for a bar and stops as if someone had shut a door on a rehearsal. Yorgos Mavropsaridis cuts each story cleanly and cuts none of them enough; every one could lose ten minutes and be better for it.

Against Lanthimos’s own record this sits nearer The Killing of a Sacred Deer than The Favourite. Dogtooth made a similar case about the family as a small dictatorship and was done in an hour and a half. Here the same case is made three times in a row, and each retelling is a little more pleased with itself than the last.

See it for the first story, which is close to perfect, and for Plemons, who is different in all three parts and best in the one where he is allowed to be frightened. It carries an 18 and it earns it. And if you are watching at home and the second title card comes up, there is no shame in deciding that you have already seen a good film and going to bed.

Critical consensus AI synthesised

64
Positive
15
Mixed
5
Negative
5

Most critics agree on what Kinds of Kindness is: a return to the colder, crueller Lanthimos of his earlier films, three linked stories about control and submission played by the same cast in shifting roles. Where they part is on whether that is welcome. The praise clusters around the ensemble, and around Jesse Plemons above all, whose performances across the three parts are singled out more often than anything else in the film. Emma Stone is often named alongside him. The reservations are about length, repetition and purpose: several reviews find the second and third stories restating the first, and a smaller group finds the cruelty self-admiring and empty. The spread is wide. Around three fifths of reviews are positive, but the dissenters include the Los Angeles Times, which sees forced weirdness from a director anxious to seem cool again, and The New Yorker, which finds artistic fatigue. Nobody calls it easy.

The AV Club
23 May 2024 · A- · Farah Cheded
90

The critic calls it peak Lanthimos, an intensely icy immersion into psychological dystopias exploring choice, control, and submission through three linked stories that build cumulatively in darkness and absurdity, with strong performances and thematic cohesion.

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Empire
24 June 2024 · Lou Thomas
80*

The film is a stripped-down, humane and highly accomplished triptych that returns Lanthimos to the tone of his earlier work. It features strong performances, particularly from Plemons and Stone, and a wild, challenging world of brutal interpersonal dynamics.

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Little White Lies
24 June 2024 · 5/4/5 · David Jenkins
80

The critic calls it a salacious triptych exploring psychological prisons and extreme power dynamics through blackly comic set-pieces. They praise the sophisticated register, strong ensemble cast and how all three parts work effectively as an anthology.

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The Telegraph
27 June 2024 · ★★★★ · Robbie Collin
80

The critic calls the macabre, mischievous triptych mind-bendingly brilliant, praising the ensemble’s range in bizarre scenarios and the fun of its mind games and cosmic jokes, while noting it rewards a second viewing.

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Vulture
21 June 2024 · festival review · Bilge Ebiri
80*

The critic welcomes the return to Lanthimos's signature spectacles of degradation and abasement in three interconnected stories of control and the search for the divine, praising the director's delight in absurdity and the matter-of-fact style that highlights the cruelty and randomness of life.

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Evening Standard
18 May 2024 · festival review · Jo-Ann Titmarsh
75*

Emma Stone and Jesse Plemons shine in these intelligent and darkly funny tales of control, identity and human behaviour. The triptych lacks some of the director's earlier oddness but features strong acting, inventive storytelling and beautiful cinematography.

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Cast

Emma Stone
Rita / Liz / Emily
Jesse Plemons
Robert / Daniel / Andrew
Willem Dafoe
Raymond / George / Omi
Margaret Qualley
Vivian / Martha / Ruth / Rebecca
Hong Chau
Sarah / Sharon / Aka
Mamoudou Athie
Will / Neil / Morgue Nurse
Joe Alwyn
Collectibles Appraiser / Passenger / Joseph

Stills

Awards

Cannes Film Festival, 2024

Won
Best Actor

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