Margaret (Diane Lane) and George Blackledge (Kevin Costner) sit at a table indoors
Film review

Let Him Go

2020 · Directed by Thomas Bezucha · 1h 54m

In a sentenceThe gentlest road film about a retired sheriff until Lesley Manville passes the pork chops

Montana, the early 1960s. George Blackledge (Kevin Costner), a retired sheriff, and his wife Margaret (Diane Lane) keep horses on a small ranch with their son James (Ryan Bruce), his wife Lorna (Kayli Carter) and the baby, Jimmy. James is thrown from a horse and killed. Three years on, Lorna marries Donnie Weboy (Will Brittain), and in town Margaret watches him hit both her and the boy. Soon after, Margaret drives over with a cake and finds their rented house empty: Donnie has taken his wife and stepson to his family in North Dakota without a word to anyone. Margaret packs the car. George, who has spent a career knowing how these journeys end, puts his gun in the glovebox and goes with her.

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Fi1m review

Thomas Bezucha’s adaptation of Larry Watson’s novel is a tender, unhurried film about a long marriage for an hour, and a rather ordinary thriller afterwards. Lane and Costner make the first half worth the second, and Lesley Manville makes sure the second is never dull.

Thomas Bezucha has adapted Larry Watson’s novel into a Western about a marriage. George Blackledge (Kevin Costner) is a retired sheriff, Margaret (Diane Lane) used to break horses, and when their daughter-in-law is carried off to North Dakota with their grandson, Margaret packs the car and George gets in beside her. For an hour this is a quiet, well-made film about two people who have been married long enough to argue without raising their voices. Then Lesley Manville arrives and it becomes a louder and more ordinary one. We preferred the first film, and we did not want to leave the second.

Lane carries it. Margaret is not a saint; she is stubborn, quick to decide and slow to say what a decision has cost her, and Lane shows the cost anyway, in a set jaw and a hand that stays on a door handle a moment too long. The scene in which she drives across town with a cake and finds the rented house empty is played without music and almost without words, and it moved us more than any of the later, bloodier business managed. Costner gives George little to say and makes it count: he reads the map, pours the whisky, and lets his wife go first through every door because he knows he cannot stop her. The two were the Kents in Man of Steel (2013), and they still sound like people who share a bathroom.

Guy Godfree shoots the drive wide and low, the Blackledges’ car a small dark thing under most of the sky, and keeps the camera at a polite distance until they reach the Weboys, where it moves in close and the light goes brown. Trevor Smith’s Weboy house is dark wood and low ceilings, a long table lit as if for an interrogation. Carol Case keeps Margaret in a good coat and gloves for the whole trip, dressed for church in a place that has no use for one. Michael Giacchino’s score is spare piano and strings for the first hour and is at its best when it stays out of the way. Jeffrey Ford and Meg Reticker let the early scenes run long, and the film is better for the patience.

Manville’s Blanche Weboy, when she comes, is a proper creation: dyed hair, a cigarette, pork chops passed round the table with the warmth of a woman counting the exits. She talks about family the way other people talk about property, and her voice rises a note every time she is contradicted. Jeffrey Donovan is good as Bill Weboy, the grinning uncle who meets the Blackledges on the road and offers to show them the way, which is the moment we knew where the evening was heading and started to feel unwell about it. That dinner is the film’s best sustained sequence. Nothing happens in it, and we did not breathe properly through any of it.

What follows is where the film loses us. The second half takes a turn we will not describe, but its effect is to swap a story about grief and pride for a story about who is holding the gun. Bezucha stages the violence competently and without much imagination; the last twenty minutes could have come from a dozen other thrillers, and the score, so careful until then, starts telling us how to feel. Booboo Stewart’s Peter Dragswolf, a young man living alone on the plains who lets the couple stay, is given a history in one speech and then used mostly to drive. Kayli Carter’s Lorna, whose son this is, barely gets a sentence of her own in a film about what should happen to her child.

Bezucha is best known for The Family Stone (2005), a Christmas comedy, and it shows in the good sense: he likes his people and gives them time. The genre asks for something harder than good sense at the finish, and he supplies it dutifully rather than well. Set against the neo-Westerns it resembles, this is the gentler cousin, with better manners and less nerve.

See it for Lane, for Manville, and for a marriage that feels lived in rather than written. It runs 114 minutes and carries a 15, and the 15 is earned late, all at once, after a long stretch in which the only thing at risk was a cake.

Critical consensus AI synthesised

65
Positive
11
Mixed
7
Negative
3

Most critics lean warm on Let Him Go, though not by a wide margin. Praise clusters almost entirely on the acting: Diane Lane is repeatedly named as the film’s anchor, her scenes with Kevin Costner valued for a quiet, largely wordless ease, and Lesley Manville’s turn as the Weboy matriarch is singled out by several as the performance that stays with them. The film is generally taken as an old-fashioned, patient thriller for older audiences, tense and well made.

The reservations gather around the third act. Many find the shift from restrained family drama into violent pulp abrupt, arriving too late or landing as implausible, and some think the sentiment thin and the supporting characters flat. The spread is wide: The Hollywood Reporter and Empire find the tonal lurch unconvincing enough to sink the film, and Slant Magazine dismisses it as hammy melodrama, while Variety and Vulture take the same swerve as the point, a thriller that becomes a story about sacrifice.

Variety
2 November 2020 · Owen Gleiberman
85*

Gleiberman finds the film an original, gripping thriller that turns into a touching story of romance and sacrifice. He especially praises Lane and Costner’s performances and the suspenseful, emotionally honest treatment of heroism.

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Vulture
6 November 2020 · Bilge Ebiri
82*

Ebiri finds the film a surprisingly affecting, patient Western romance that stays with the viewer. He especially praises Lesley Manville’s magnetic, larger-than-life performance as the Weboy family matriarch.

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Radio Times
★★★★ · Josh Winning
80

Winning praises the film as an arresting western and welcomes the reunion of Diane Lane and Kevin Costner. He singles out their pairing as a particular joy.

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The Guardian
5 November 2020 · ★★★★ · Benjamin Lee
80

Lee finds the shift from a restrained neo-western to a violent B-movie entertaining, though the mayhem arrives too late. He especially praises Lesley Manville’s electric, fierce performance as the villainous Blanche.

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RogerEbert.com
6 November 2020 · ★★★/4 · Brian Tallerico
75

The review regards the film as a solid, old-fashioned thriller. It singles out the performances of Diane Lane and Kevin Costner.

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The i Paper
17 December 2020 · Francesca Steele
75*

The review finds the film tender and tense, with restrained momentum before a bombastic third act. It particularly praises the easy familiarity and exchanges between Diane Lane and Kevin Costner.

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Straight answers AI written, from our review

Is Let Him Go worth watching?
Let Him Go is worth watching for Diane Lane, Kevin Costner and Lesley Manville, and we scored it 64. The first hour is a quiet, well-made film about a long marriage; the second half becomes an ordinary thriller about who is holding the gun. See it for the performances rather than the plot.
How long is Let Him Go, and what is it rated?
Let Him Go runs 1h 54m. It is a thriller and crime film.
Where can I watch Let Him Go in Saudi Arabia?
Let Him Go is not on any streaming or rental service in Saudi Arabia at the moment. It is available in 54 other countries; change your country at the top of the page to see where. Availability is checked daily.
How violent or frightening is Let Him Go, and is it suitable for children?
Let Him Go carries a 15 in the UK and an R in the US, and the violence arrives late, all at once, after a long stretch in which very little is at risk. An early scene shows a man hitting his wife and a small boy. It is not for children, and the squeamish should know the last twenty minutes are bloody.
How does Let Him Go compare to Winter's Bone?
Let Him Go and Winter's Bone both send a quiet, stubborn person into a dangerous family for an answer, but Winter's Bone is the tenser and more consistent film. Debra Granik keeps her nerve to the end, where Thomas Bezucha turns to routine gunplay. Choose Winter's Bone for sustained dread; choose Let Him Go for a marriage worth watching and Lesley Manville.
Is Let Him Go based on a true story or a book?
Let Him Go is adapted from Larry Watson's novel of the same name, not from a true story. Thomas Bezucha's version keeps the setting of Montana and North Dakota in the early 1960s and the story of a retired sheriff and his wife going after their grandson. You do not need to have read the book to follow it.
What should I watch after Let Him Go?
After Let Him Go, try Winter's Bone (2010, Fi1m 85): Another quiet person walks into a dangerous family and refuses to leave without an answer. Then Animal Kingdom (2010, Fi1m 84): Jacki Weaver’s Melbourne matriarch is Blanche Weboy with better tea and worse sons; and Hell or High Water (2016, Fi1m 84): A modern Western that keeps its violence short and its conversations long.

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