Lillian Huckle (Peggy Ashcroft) sits as Harriet Ambrose (Geraldine James) watches Hugh Ambrose (James Fox) lean toward her
Film review

She's Been Away

1989 · Directed by Peter Hall · 1h 43m

In a sentencePeggy Ashcroft spends a lifetime in an asylum and comes out the sanest person at the dinner party

Lillian Huckle (Peggy Ashcroft) has lived in a psychiatric hospital since she was a young woman. Now the hospital is closing, the other long-stay patients, among them George (Hugh Lloyd) and Gladys (Rosalie Crutchley), are being dispersed, and Lillian is sent to the only family prepared to take her: Hugh Ambrose (James Fox), a prosperous London businessman, his pregnant wife Harriet (Geraldine James) and their small son Dominic (Jackson Kyle). Lillian arrives with a suitcase and says almost nothing. Harriet, bored and restless in a large, expensive house, watches her. Hugh pays for things and goes to the office. Between the scenes in the present, the film returns to Young Lillian (Rebecca Pidgeon) in the comfortable house she grew up in, and begins, slowly, to show how she came to be put away.

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Stephen Poliakoff writes and Peter Hall directs a slow, quietly angry film about a woman released from a hospital after most of her life. It drifts in the middle and softens at the end, but Peggy Ashcroft and Geraldine James make it worth your evening.

Stephen Poliakoff’s script begins with a woman being told that the hospital she has lived in for most of her life is shutting, and that she is free. Peter Hall films the news as a small administrative event, which is how Lillian Huckle (Peggy Ashcroft) receives it. She’s Been Away is a quiet film, often a slow one, and it has a slack stretch in the middle that we felt. It is also one of the best things we have seen Ashcroft do, and that is reason enough to sit through the slow parts.

The opening half hour in the hospital is the film at its most confident. Philip Bonham-Carter shoots the wards and corridors in flat, even light, with the camera kept still and at a distance, so that the patients look like furniture that has been there for decades. Hugh Lloyd’s George and Rosalie Crutchley’s Gladys are the friends Lillian leaves behind, and Hall gives them time: a game of cards, a goodbye on a staircase, nobody raising a voice. Ashcroft plays Lillian as a woman who has learned that the safest thing to do with any feeling is to put it down and walk away from it. For a long while she barely speaks.

Then she is driven to the Ambroses. Gary Williamson’s design makes their London house large, pale and full of glass, a place where everything has been chosen and nothing is loved. James Fox’s Hugh is decent, embarrassed and mostly elsewhere; he wants to have done the right thing without having to be in the house while it is done. Geraldine James’s Harriet is the film’s second subject and its engine. Pregnant, clever, with nothing to do all day but be married, she is the one person in the house who notices that Lillian is a person, and James plays her curiosity as something close to hunger. Their scenes together, two women on opposite sides of a kitchen, are where the film breathes.

The flashbacks are the film’s weakest device. Rebecca Pidgeon is good as Young Lillian, bright and stubborn in a household that wants a quieter daughter, and the family’s reasons for sending her away are shown plainly enough. But Ardan Fisher cuts to the past at the moments we least want to leave the present, and Stephen Edwards’s score, sparing and mostly piano in the modern scenes, turns thick and sorrowful whenever the old house appears, telling us what to feel about things Ashcroft’s face has already told us. The past is a footnote here and the film treats it as a chapter.

Here is the scene that got us. Hugh and Harriet give a dinner party, and Lillian sits among the guests while they talk across her about property and schools and other people’s divorces. Ashcroft listens, and we watched her listen, and when she finally says something it is short, true and lands on the table like a dropped glass. We laughed, and then we were ashamed of laughing, because the joke is that a woman everyone has agreed is mad is the only one present who says what she sees. It moved us more than we expected a dinner-party scene to.

The middle sags. Hall is a theatre director and frames his rooms like stages, people arranged across the width of the picture and left there, and once Lillian has settled in there are twenty minutes where the film has nothing to do but wait for Harriet to crack. Rachel Kempson’s Matilda, the older relative who remembers more than she lets on, is given one good scene and then forgotten. The second half takes a turn we will not describe; we will say only that the film relaxes into it a little too happily, and that the last reel is warmer and less convincing than everything before it.

Poliakoff would go on to spend a career on the question of what families bury and who pays for the burying, and this is an early, plainer version of that interest, without the later films’ tricks. It runs 103 minutes and carries a PG, and it is best watched at home, in the evening, with the phone in another room. Give it the first half hour. Ashcroft will keep you for the rest.

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Time Out
· SGr
67*

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The New York Times
14 December 1990
64*

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Straight answers AI written, from our review

Is She's Been Away worth watching?
She's Been Away is worth watching for anyone with patience for a slow, quietly angry drama, and we scored it 76. Peggy Ashcroft, as a woman released from a psychiatric hospital after most of her life, and Geraldine James, as the restless wife who takes her in, carry it past a sagging middle and a last reel that softens more than it should.
How long is She's Been Away, and what is it rated?
She's Been Away runs 1h 43m. It is a drama film.
Where can I watch She's Been Away in Saudi Arabia?
She's Been Away is not on any streaming or rental service in Saudi Arabia at the moment. Availability is checked daily.
How does She's Been Away compare to An Angel at My Table?
She's Been Away is the smaller and plainer of the two films, built around a few rooms and two women watching each other, where An Angel at My Table follows a whole life in brief episodes. Campion's film is the more patient and the more moving; Hall's has the sharper single performance in Ashcroft. Choose the Campion for scope, this one for a long, slow burn in a single house.
What should I watch after She's Been Away?
After She's Been Away, try An Angel at My Table (1990, Fi1m 87): Jane Campion on a woman wrongly committed, and what the mind does to survive it. Then Make Way for Tomorrow (1937, Fi1m 91): An old couple parcelled out among relatives who would rather not; unbearably kind.

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  3. Make Way for Tomorrow (1937, Fi1m 91)An old couple parcelled out among relatives who would rather not; unbearably kind.

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