Solène (Anne Hathaway) laughing in Hayes (Nicholas Galitzine)'s arms on a balcony with champagne and guitar
Film review

The Idea of You

2024 · Directed by Michael Showalter · 1h 56m · LSF 17+

In a sentenceAnne Hathaway makes dating a pop star look almost worth the nuisance

Solène (Anne Hathaway) is a mother beginning a romance with Hayes (Nicholas Galitzine), a younger member of a boy band. She wants to explore the attraction without having her choices judged by everyone else. His fame makes that difficult, while the difference in their ages invites scrutiny she cannot simply set aside. The supporting cast includes Ella Rubin as Izzy, Annie Mumolo as Tracy and Reid Scott as Daniel. As Solène considers how much room to give this relationship, the pair face the problem of getting to know each other under public attention.

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Fi1m review

Anne Hathaway and Nicholas Galitzine make this uneven romance worth the evening. Their attraction is convincing, though a thinly written pop star and some laboured obstacles leave the actors doing more than their share.

Michael Showalter’s The Idea of You is an enjoyable romance whose leads keep rescuing it from some thin writing. It wants to take a woman’s desire seriously while giving us the pleasures of an improbable courtship, and those aims sit comfortably together. Anne Hathaway and Nicholas Galitzine make the attraction convincing enough that we stop questioning the premise. The difficulties introduced to keep them apart need more work, particularly when celebrity becomes the explanation for everything.

Anne Hathaway gives Solène the emotional life that the film needs. We were moved by the embarrassment she allows into Solène’s pleasure: being wanted is welcome, but accepting it does not come easily. There is humour in that uncertainty, too, and the performance makes her hesitation understandable without letting it become her only characteristic. The script gives her a familiar romantic dilemma; she makes us care about the person having it.

Nicholas Galitzine is an appealing partner, and the intimacy between Hayes and Solène supplies the film’s strongest reason to exist. He makes the attention Hayes pays her feel welcome rather than calculated. But Hayes has been written with too little to occupy him beyond the relationship, so charm has to account for most of his personality. That is enough to make the courtship pleasurable, though it limits how much we can care about his side of it.

Jim Frohna’s cinematography gives the romance an inviting polish, and that finish suits a film asking us to enjoy its central attraction. Amy Williams’s production design works on similar terms, contributing to the pleasure without making the surroundings especially revealing about the people occupying them. Both serve the fantasy more effectively than they establish a convincing celebrity life. The actors remain the most interesting things to look at, which is a reasonable priority for this kind of film.

Siddhartha Khosla’s music supports the tenderness without making the quieter feelings seem small. That suits Anne Hathaway’s performance, which does not need much assistance to hold our attention. The boy-band songs are a weaker proposition, and do little to explain the scale of the devotion the group is supposed to inspire. It is a small but persistent problem when so much of the relationship’s difficulty depends upon Hayes being famous.

Jennifer Westfeldt and Michael Showalter’s screenplay struggles to sustain interesting conversations once the attraction has been established. The talk becomes blander, and the writing leans on public judgement when the couple themselves might have offered more interesting difficulties. The double standard facing Solène is worth examining, but the film does not pursue it with much depth. Peter Teschner’s editing cannot quite disguise the repetition in this middle stretch. At 116 minutes, there is time to give both lovers more to say for themselves.

Romantic comedies do not need surprising plots to work, but they do need people whose happiness matters. This one has that, even if Anne Hathaway is doing a disproportionate amount of the work. It also allows desire to be pleasurable without constantly apologising for the fantasy, which is welcome. Choose it for the courtship, and be prepared to forgive the rather less persuasive obstacles.

Critical consensus AI synthesised

70
Positive
17
Mixed
5
Negative
2

Most critics find The Idea of You an engaging, emotionally persuasive romance, with praise clustering around Anne Hathaway’s vulnerable performance and her chemistry with Nicholas Galitzine. The reviews repeatedly credit her with giving the romantic fantasy humour and depth, even when the writing offers less support. Several also welcome its treatment of female desire and relationship double standards.

Reservations centre on thinly drawn characters, contrived plotting and underdeveloped boy-band material, though the verdicts range from enthusiastic to firmly negative. The film’s handling of celebrity divides opinion: Empire finds its account of online hate perceptive, while other reviews want more from the fame-related conflict. Deadline notably questions the central romance’s credibility, preferring the mother-daughter relationship. Sight and Sound offers a stronger dissent, finding the romance flat, saccharine and insincere despite moments of intimacy between the leads. Most critics are more forgiving, finding enough charm in the performances to enjoy the familiar setup.

The AV Club
18 March 2024 · A- · Matthew Jackson
90

The critic calls it one of the best recent romantic comedies, despite a middle section that struggles to find an organic conflict. Anne Hathaway’s vulnerable, emotionally rich performance is singled out for exceptional praise.

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Empire
29 April 2024 · Ella Kemp
85*

The review finds the film intelligent, hopeful, and surprisingly perceptive. It especially praises its nuanced take on online hate and celebrity culture, alongside Hathaway and Galitzine’s chemistry.

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IndieWire
17 March 2024 · B+ · Rafael Motamayor
83

The critic praises the film as a fresh, poignant rom-com and coming-of-age story, with Anne Hathaway delivering a vulnerable, self-assured performance. They criticize the fictional boyband’s lack of convincing superstar charisma.

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Evening Standard
26 April 2024 · ★★★★ · Saskia Kemsley
80

The critic finds this age-gap rom-com surprisingly enjoyable, witty, and emotionally engaging. She praises the electric chemistry between Anne Hathaway and Nicholas Galitzine and the film’s message about relationship double standards.

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Variety
16 March 2024 · festival review · Peter Debruge
78*

Debruge finds the romance engaging and sees Anne Hathaway’s performance as the film’s great strength. He particularly praises the believable chemistry between Hathaway and Nicholas Galitzine, while noting that the contrived meet-cute is less convincing.

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Slant Magazine
18 March 2024 · ★★★/4 · Rocco T. Thompson
75

The critic finds the film a sensitive, dewy-eyed romance and a strong argument for the romcom genre’s continued vitality. They praise Anne Hathaway’s star-making charm and the emotional connection she shares with Nicholas Galitzine, while noting that the fame-related conflict is underplayed.

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Straight answers AI written, from our review

Is The Idea of You worth watching?
The Idea of You is worth watching for its convincing central attraction and Anne Hathaway’s performance, and we score it 73/100. We recommend it to romance lovers willing to forgive a thinly written pop star, repetitive conversations and laboured obstacles in exchange for a courtship whose happiness matters.
How long is The Idea of You, and what is it rated?
The Idea of You runs 1h 56m and is rated 17+ by the LSF in Indonesia. It is a music and comedy film.
Where can I watch The Idea of You in Indonesia?
The Idea of You is streaming on Amazon Prime Video in Indonesia, and it is also available to rent from Apple TV from Rp 25,000. Availability is checked daily; the links above go straight to each service.
How violent or frightening is The Idea of You, and is it suitable for children?
The Idea of You carries a UK 15 certificate, so it is not suitable for children under 15. The classification indicates material intended for older teenagers and adults, but we cannot give a specific warning about violence or frightening scenes from the certificate alone.
How does The Idea of You compare to Notting Hill?
The Idea of You is our choice for the tenderness of its central attraction, while Notting Hill is the better choice for comedy about the practical inconvenience of dating someone famous. We find both romances easy to care about, though both labour over the obstacles keeping their couples apart.
Is The Idea of You based on a true story or a book?
The Idea of You is adapted from a novel by Robinne Lee, rather than presented as a true story. We find the romance accessible on its own, so reading the book is not a prerequisite, though we make no claim about how faithfully the film follows it.

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