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Babygirl

2024 · Directed by Halina Reijn
1h 55mRomanceThriller18
73
Fi1m score
79
Critics · 19
Audience · not yet

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Synopsis

Romy (Nicole Kidman) runs a large company and is very good at it. She is married to Jacob (Antonio Banderas), has two daughters, and the sex in her marriage has never given her what she wants, which she has never told anyone. Samuel (Harris Dickinson) is one of the company’s new interns, much younger than her, and within days of meeting her he seems to have guessed something about her that she has never said aloud. An affair begins, on his terms rather than hers, while her assistant Esme (Sophie Wilde) and her elder daughter Isabel (Esther-Rose McGregor) notice more than she thinks. Halina Reijn writes and directs. 115 minutes, certificate 18.

Fi1m review

In a sentenceThe intern gives the orders, the boss takes them, and it is funnier than either of them lets on

Halina Reijn’s office affair is sharper, funnier and better acted than its genre usually manages, and Nicole Kidman has not been this exposed in years. It is also more careful than it wants you to think, and kinder than the genre has any habit of being.

Halina Reijn has made an erotic thriller in which nobody gets punished, and that is the whole idea. Romy (Nicole Kidman) is a chief executive, is married to Jacob (Antonio Banderas), has two daughters and has never got what she wants in bed, or said so. Samuel (Harris Dickinson) is an intern who soon tells her he thinks she likes being told what to do. The set-up belongs to Fatal Attraction. What Reijn does with it is funnier, kinder and better acted than that film’s descendants usually manage, and more careful than the trailer promises. It is a good film and a safe one.

Kidman is the reason to see it. Romy chairs meetings, performs confidence for a living and cannot say a true sentence about what she wants in her own bedroom. The scene that got at us is the first hotel room. Samuel tells her to get on the floor, and she does, and Kidman’s face goes from a woman performing embarrassment to a woman who has stopped performing anything. We were embarrassed for her, hands nearly over our eyes, and then we were not, and the switch happened without a cut. It is the least protected work she has done in a long time, and Reijn shoots it without a flicker of judgement.

Dickinson is just as good, in a part that is harder to see. Samuel is not a seducer with a plan; he is a young man testing whether the thing he has guessed about his boss is true, and Dickinson gives him a hesitation before each order, as if checking his own nerve. When he tests it in front of other people, we laughed, and then felt something we were less sure of, which is the effect the film is after. Banderas, as a husband quietly certain he is a good lover, plays a man who is wrong about himself without ever making him a fool.

Jasper Wolf shoots the offices in glass and grey, all reflections and nobody’s face quite in focus, and the hotel in a low amber that makes it look smaller than it is. Matthew Hannam cuts the sex short; it is talked about at length and shown briefly, and several scenes are over almost as they begin. Cristóbal Tapia de Veer’s score is the sound of a choir hyperventilating, breaths and gasps arranged into something like music, and it does more than anything else to tell us the film knows how absurd its people are being. Bart Mueller and Kurt Swanson dress Romy in cream and black tailoring that sits on her like armour and Samuel in a suit that looks borrowed.

The trouble is around the edges. The film has ideas about the workplace, about who is allowed to want what at work and who pays for it, and it points at them without saying much. Sophie Wilde’s Esme, Romy’s assistant, has a thread about ambition that arrives as a speech when it needed a scene. The middle hour repeats its route, office to hotel to kitchen to hotel, and we started counting the loops. Most of all, for a film about shame, every encounter arrives with its consent worked out in advance and its exits marked. A few critics have called it safe. We would say it is kind, and kindness costs a thriller something.

Reijn’s Bodies Bodies Bodies was a comedy hiding inside a slasher. This is a comedy hiding inside an erotic thriller, and it is smarter than the films it borrows from about who actually wants what. It is also gentler with everyone in it than those films ever were, and we were not always sure the gentleness was earned.

See it with someone you are prepared to argue with afterwards. The 18 certificate is earned by the talk rather than the flesh, and at 115 minutes it is over before the arguments are.

Critical consensus AI synthesised

79
Positive
17
Mixed
1
Negative
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Most critics like Babygirl, and they like it for the same reasons. The praise goes first to Nicole Kidman, described again and again as fearless, vulnerable and in control of a performance that asks a great deal of her, and to Harris Dickinson, whose chemistry with her is singled out nearly everywhere. Reviewers also credit Reijn for treating the affair without shame or punishment, and for keeping the sex awkward and uncertain rather than expert. The reservations cluster around what surrounds the bedroom: several critics find the workplace material and the ideas about power less convincing than the scenes of desire, and a few think the film safer than it pretends to be. The Guardian calls it expertly done but suspect at its core; The Wrap finds it genteel; Paste thinks it more reassuring than provocative. The spread is otherwise narrow, with one outright dissent, Collider, which finds it superficial and exploitative of Kidman.

The AV Club
3 September 2024 · A · Anna McKibbin
95

The film brilliantly captures the feeling of falling in lust through a feature-length homage to the early rush of attraction and radically charged encounters. It singles out Reijn's empathy for every character and the relief and revelation in Kidman's expressions during sexual discovery without punishment or judgment.

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Empire
7 January 2025 · Beth Webb
90*

Reijn weaves a complex tapestry of desire, power and humour that avoids genre conventions. Kidman delivers a gutsy, no-holds-barred performance in a fiercely erotic, nuanced and raucously funny exploration of carnal desire.

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The Independent
9 January 2025
85*

The film is unabashedly and giddily sexy thanks to committed performances from Nicole Kidman and Harris Dickinson. Reijn crafts a BDSM story full of fumbling uncertainty rather than assured expertise, letting the characters feel their way through desire.

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Vulture
7 September 2024 · festival review
85*

It is the year’s hottest movie, an unabashedly indulgent adventure into self-discovery with giddy deliriousness and startlingly private eroticism. The review singles out Dickinson's magnetic presence and Kidman's shift from overachieving matron to someone shocked by her own desires.

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Little White Lies
9 January 2025 · 3/4/4 · Hannah Strong
80

Reijn delivers intelligent, elegant adult filmmaking that handles complex themes of desire, power and consent with nuance, empathy and candour; the strong chemistry between Kidman and Dickinson is singled out as stratospheric.

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Los Angeles Times
24 December 2024 · Amy Nicholson
80*

The critic calls it a thorny pleasure that tests sexual ethics and power dynamics through a hot, consent-focused age-gap affair, with empathy for the protagonist's complexities.

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Awards

Golden Globes, 2025

Nominated
Best Actress – Motion Picture Drama

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