Film review

Ordinary People

1980 · Directed by Robert Redford · 2h 04m · MPA R

In a sentenceMary Tyler Moore makes us want to apologise for things we haven’t done

Drama

After a tragedy, the Jarrett family tries to carry on while tensions within the household become harder to contain. Beth (Mary Tyler Moore), Calvin (Donald Sutherland) and Conrad (Timothy Hutton) have different ways of coping, and increasingly struggle to understand one another. Therapy offers a place to discuss feelings that are difficult to acknowledge at home. Judd Hirsch plays Dr Berger in Robert Redford’s drama, adapted by Alvin Sargent from Judith Guest’s novel. The story follows the family’s attempts to manage grief, maintain appearances and decide what they owe each other.

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Robert Redford’s moving family drama gives Mary Tyler Moore, Donald Sutherland and Timothy Hutton the attention they deserve. The screenplay explains more than it needs to, but Moore makes its troubled mother impossible to dismiss.

Robert Redford’s Ordinary People is a moving family drama, weakened a little by its eagerness to explain what is wrong. The Jarretts struggle to acknowledge painful feelings, and Redford takes their difficulty seriously without treating them as an exceptional case. He is interested in what living together demands of people who cannot readily give each other what they need. Mary Tyler Moore, Donald Sutherland and Timothy Hutton make those demands matter.

Mary Tyler Moore’s Beth Jarrett is the reason to stay with it. Moore makes being tightly controlled look like hard work, and being near Beth look harder still. We found her painful to watch, because the effort she puts into containing herself leaves so little ease for anyone else. There is cruelty in this performance, but also enough fear to prevent Beth becoming merely the difficult mother. Moore makes us want to challenge her without feeling entitled to dismiss her.

Donald Sutherland’s Calvin Jarrett supplies a warmth that could easily have become an excuse to prefer him. Sutherland is more interesting than that: his gentleness makes us consider how little kindness can accomplish when a family has stopped understanding itself. Timothy Hutton’s Conrad Jarrett is more openly vulnerable, and Hutton never lets that vulnerability become a plea for indulgence. He makes Conrad someone we care about without making the people around him seem irrelevant. Redford gives all three performances the attention they need.

Alvin Sargent’s screenplay, adapted from Judith Guest’s novel, is sometimes too eager to explain their behaviour. Its treatment of therapy has a welcome seriousness, and Judd Hirsch gives Dr Berger the presence the part needs. Yet the explanations can become too tidy, particularly beside Moore’s stubbornly uncomfortable work. We do not need every painful response explained before we can care about it. The writing sometimes tells us what the actors have already made us feel.

John Bailey’s cinematography contributes to the handsome finish, which suits the family’s determination to remain composed but occasionally makes their distress too comfortable to look at. Jeff Kanew’s editing is most effective when the pace lets us attend to the performances without pressing for the next explanation. Marvin Hamlisch’s music can feel more solicitous than necessary; these actors need little help securing our sympathy. The care is evident throughout, although a rougher edge here and there would have served the material.

The Jarretts’ comfortable circumstances might make their troubles easy to dismiss, and Redford refuses that easy response. Their unhappiness receives the close attention a family drama owes its people, however well they live. The film is less convincing when it seems to rank them according to how well they can talk about themselves. That risks making Beth’s restraint look like an offence for which she alone should answer. Moore keeps us considering what this family asks of her.

The reservations matter, but they need not keep anyone drawn to domestic drama away. Redford gives the actors enough room to make these people worth thinking about after the film has stopped explaining them. Watch it for Moore in particular, and allow yourself to feel more sympathy for Beth than the screenplay always seems to invite.

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Radio Times
★★★★ · Sue Heal
80

The film is a critically acclaimed Oscar winner for best picture and director, with a standout performance from Mary Tyler Moore as the tightly wound mother, supported by strong turns from Sutherland and Hutton. Though Redford's handling of the family's hidden tensions now feels pat and obvious, it remains a solid directorial debut that thoughtfully addresses therapy.

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Film Comment
1 January 2020 · Kaleem Hawa
65*

The critic reflects on the film's enduring personal resonance despite its dated reputation as sentimental and class-bound. They single out Mary Tyler Moore's performance and the film's exploration of family repression and queer-coded identification for praise.

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Time Out
10 September 2012 · DMacp
55*

The film excels in its portrait of Mary Tyler Moore as a neurotic, domineering mother but otherwise comes across as a tasteful, actors-driven psychodrama that aspires to Chekhovian depth while remaining an elegant advert for therapy. Redford directs handsomely but with a pretentious touch that leaves an ultimately cuddly impression.

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Empire
1 January 2000

This superior family-in-crisis drama is thoughtful and beautifully observed, fully deserving of its many accolades including Oscars for Best Picture, director Robert Redford, the screenplay and Timothy Hutton.

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The New York Times
19 September 1980 · Vincent Canby

The film is a moving, intelligent and funny portrait of an upper-middle-class family unraveling after tragedy. Canby praises Redford's assured directorial debut and the way the characters remain ordinary without being patronized.

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Variety
17 September 1980 · Todd McCarthy

Redford delivers a remarkably intelligent and assured directorial debut in this powerfully intimate domestic drama. The review highlights the craftsmanship, strong performances (especially by Timothy Hutton and Mary Tyler Moore), and sensitive handling of the family's emotional turmoil.

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Cast

Stills

Awards

Academy Awards, 1981

Nominated
Best Actress
Won
Best Director
Won
Best Picture
Won
Best Supporting Actor
Won
Best Writing, Adapted Screenplay

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