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sex, lies, and videotape

1989 · Directed by Steven Soderbergh
1h 41mDrama15
83
Fi1m score
Critics · 3 so far
Audience · not yet

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Synopsis

Ann Bishop Mullany lives in a well-kept Louisiana house with her husband John, a lawyer. She tells her therapist she has lost interest in sex and lies awake worrying about the world’s rubbish. John, meanwhile, is sleeping with Ann’s sister Cynthia, who has no patience for Ann’s tidiness. Into this arrives Graham Dalton, John’s friend from college, passing through town with a car, few possessions and a video camera. Over lunch he tells Ann that he cannot perform sexually, and that he records women talking about their sex lives. James Spader, Andie MacDowell, Peter Gallagher and Laura San Giacomo play the four; Ron Vawter is the therapist. Steven Soderbergh wrote, directed and edited.

Fi1m review

In a sentenceA lawyer, his wife, her sister and a drifter with a camcorder; the drifter is the honest one

Steven Soderbergh’s first film puts four people in a Louisiana house, adds a video camera, and lets them talk themselves into trouble. It is small, exact and quietly funny, and it has kept; only the technology has aged.

Steven Soderbergh wrote, directed and edited his first film, and it shows, in the sense that nothing in it seems to be there by accident. Ann (Andie MacDowell) tells her therapist (Ron Vawter) she has stopped wanting sex and has started worrying about where the rubbish goes. Her husband John (Peter Gallagher), a lawyer, is sleeping with her sister Cynthia (Laura San Giacomo). Into this drives Graham (James Spader), John’s old friend, with one bag, a camcorder and a habit of answering questions truthfully. sex, lies, and videotape is a small film that has lasted: 101 minutes, four rooms, a great deal of talk, and it earns its 15 certificate with barely a bare shoulder.

Soderbergh the editor is the first surprise. The opening lays Ann’s therapy session over pictures of Graham driving into town and John undressing in Cynthia’s flat, so that three lies are under way before anyone has said a false word. He keeps doing it: a conversation starts in one room and finishes over the faces of the people it is about. It costs nothing and it does most of the film’s work, because we always know one thing more than whoever is speaking.

Spader plays Graham almost motionless, hands folded, voice pitched just under conversational. He tells Ann he is impotent the way another man might mention hay fever, and the comedy comes from watching MacDowell take it. She plays Ann as a woman who has ironed herself flat and is beginning to notice the creases; her small starts of alarm are the funniest thing in the film. Gallagher gives John the ease of a man who has never been caught at anything and does not believe he is the sort who gets caught. San Giacomo’s Cynthia is the only one of the four with an appetite and no shame about it, and she gets the best lines. Vawter listens with a patience that is itself a form of judgement.

Walt Lloyd shoots the Mullany house in low, warm, lamp-lit tones, blinds down against the afternoon, so that it looks comfortable and slightly short of air. The tapes, when we see them, are the opposite: grey-blue video, soft at the edges, a single face in a chair. Cliff Martinez’s score is a handful of quiet electronic figures that arrive between scenes and leave before anyone speaks. It never tells us what to feel, and in a film about people who cannot say what they feel, that is the right call.

The scene that got us comes early. Ann finds Graham’s shelf of tapes, each labelled with a woman’s first name, and asks what is on them. He tells her. We laughed at her alarm, and then, as he went on explaining in that even voice why he does it, we went cold and stopped laughing. Nothing is shown. The film’s method is to keep the camera on the person listening, and it is a good deal more unsettling than any of the sex the title promises.

Not all of it holds. The therapy scenes say out loud what the rest of the film is already showing, and by the third of them we wanted Vawter to put down his notepad. The film’s faith that telling the truth into a lens will do you good is stated more tidily than these people deserve. The second half takes a turn we will not describe; it resolves things a little more neatly than the first hour led us to expect, and some critics at the time thought the whole thing came down to homilies about honesty. We think that undersells how much the film distrusts Graham, who is its most honest character and its most damaged. But the homilies are there.

Soderbergh went on to bigger and busier films, Out of Sight (1998) and Traffic (2000) among them, and several are better. None is more certain of exactly what it is and how long it should take. Watch this one with someone you have been with for a long time, and try not to look at each other during the lunch scene.

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With only 3 reviews in so far, the reviews lean warm but the spread is wide. Most critics take it as an unusually assured debut, praising Soderbergh’s script for its patience with adultery and voyeurism, and the performances for feeling like people rather than positions; several single out the video camera itself as a character. Some note the technical limits of a low budget without minding much. The one clear dissent comes from The New Yorker, which grants the film its polish and its knack for tension from small materials but finds it a triangle drama with a minor kink, arriving at platitudes about honesty and feelings.

Empire
1 January 2000 · William Thomas
80*

The critic finds the film startling in its handling of taboo subjects like adultery and voyeurism through 1980s technology, and startlingly competent as a debut that won the Palme d'Or. The believable characters and Soderbergh's intriguingly intellectual script are singled out for praise.

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The New Yorker
31 July 1989 · Terrence Rafferty
50*

The review describes the film as a smooth, handsome first feature that generates psychological tension from very little, essentially a triangle drama with a minor kink. It ultimately reduces to dubious truisms about honesty and getting in touch with one’s feelings.

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Los Angeles Times
4 August 1989 · Sheila Benson

The critic calls the film the funniest and saddest American movie in years and possibly the most compelling, praising its elegant revelation of contemporary sexual afflictions and tranquil spell. Soderbergh’s manner of pushing characters into deeper psychological waters is highlighted as a key strength.

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The Hollywood Reporter
7 February 1989 · festival review · Duane Byrge

The critic praises the film as a penetrating, moving, and darkly funny independent feature that offers witty but touching insights into modern relationships through its characters' inner workings. They single out the layered performances, particularly those of Peter Gallagher, Andie MacDowell, Laura San Giacomo, and James Spader.

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The New York Times
4 August 1989 · Caryn James

The critic hails Soderbergh’s debut as an astonishing, richly layered tale of sexual greed, fear, love and betrayal that surpasses its advance praise. Graham’s video camera is singled out as a central player in this intricate dance of truth, self-denial and deception.

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Time Out
22 May 2017 · GA

Soderbergh's debut is impressively mature, focusing on the gap between actions and motivations rather than sensationalism. The strong performances and perceptive dialogue make it intellectually and emotionally stimulating.

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Cast

James Spader
Graham Dalton
Andie MacDowell
Ann Bishop Mullany
Peter Gallagher
John Mullany
Laura San Giacomo
Cynthia Bishop
Ron Vawter
Therapist
Alexandra Root
Girl on Tape

Stills

Awards

Academy Awards, 1990

Nominated
Best Writing, Original Screenplay

Cannes Film Festival, 1989

Won
Palme d'Or

Sundance Audience Award: U.S. Dramatic, 1989

Won
Sundance Audience Award: U.S. Dramatic

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