Fiona (Julie Christie) holds a mug while Grant (Gordon Pinsent) stands behind her at home
Film review

Away from Her

2007 · Directed by Sarah Polley · 1h 50m · FSK 0

In a sentenceThe cruellest thing a wife can do is forget her husband; the second cruellest is to seem relieved

Grant (Gordon Pinsent) and Fiona (Julie Christie) have been married a long time and live quietly, out in the snow most days of the winter. Fiona has begun to forget. Household objects turn up in the wrong places, the word for wine will not come, and an afternoon out ends with her lost on a road after dark. She reads up on her condition, decides for herself, and checks into Meadowlake, a care home run by a cheerful administrator, Madeleine (Wendy Crewson). Grant drives home alone. When he next visits, Fiona is friendly, vague, and devoted to another resident, Aubrey (Michael Murphy), who does not speak. Grant keeps coming back, and keeps watching.

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Sarah Polley’s first film as director takes Alice Munro’s story about a wife with Alzheimer’s and a husband left watching and plays it straight, without a swell of music or a speech. Julie Christie is remarkable; the structure fidgets more than it needs to.

Grant (Gordon Pinsent) and Fiona (Julie Christie) have been married a long time, and the first thing Sarah Polley shows us is the two of them out in the snow, small against it and in step. Not long after, Fiona washes up after dinner and starts putting things away in the wrong places. Polley, adapting Alice Munro’s short story The Bear Came Over the Mountain, has made a film about Alzheimer’s that is really about a marriage, and about what a husband is owed by a wife who no longer knows him. It is good, and it is quiet about being good. We would put it in front of anyone who has sat in a care home car park working up to going in.

Christie is the reason most critics give for seeing it, and they are right. Fiona is nobody’s object of pity. She reads the pamphlets with a scientist’s interest, chooses Meadowlake herself, and tells Grant in the car that she would like to leave with some dignity. Christie plays her bright, amused and about half a second behind, so that in every conversation we watch her catch up and pretend she was never behind at all. We were moved more than we had braced for by one small scene in the kitchen. Fiona tells Grant she thinks she is beginning to disappear, and she smiles as she says it, as though reporting an interesting fact about someone else. Christie keeps her eyes dry. That is what did it.

Grant is the film’s actual subject, and Gordon Pinsent plays him with almost nothing moving above the collar. The film lets him remember their marriage in pieces while he sits in a lounge chair watching his wife fetch a cardigan for Aubrey (Michael Murphy), a resident who cannot speak. Pinsent does not ask us to feel sorry for Grant. He lets us watch a man wondering what he has earned and deciding to keep turning up regardless. It is the kind of performance that gets overlooked next to a brighter one, and it should not be.

Luc Montpellier lights the house in lamplight the colour of weak tea and the world outside it in the hard blue-white of deep winter, and he does not let Meadowlake have either. Kathleen Climie’s production design gives the home wide corridors, pastel walls and a big window onto the snow; it is pleasant, which is worse than grim would have been. Debra Hanson dresses Christie in white and cream, a long pale coat under a silver bob, so that outdoors she is nearly part of the snow and indoors she is the brightest thing in the corridor. Jonathan Goldsmith’s score is a few piano notes and long silences, and it has the manners to stay out of the visiting hours.

The home is populated with care. Wendy Crewson’s Madeleine, who runs it, gives Grant the tour and explains that they like to keep things upbeat, and Crewson lets us hear exactly how much practice that line has had. Kristen Thomson’s Kristy, a nurse, is the best-written small part: she tells Grant what she sees, no more, and is the only person in the film who talks to him as if he were still a husband. Michael Murphy says nothing for the whole film and is never once a prop. Olympia Dukakis arrives later as Aubrey’s wife Marian and brings a harder, more practical kind of grief into a story that needed it.

The structure is where we part company with the film. Polley opens somewhere near the end, loops back and cuts between months with a confidence the story does not need, and David Wharnsby’s editing has to keep reminding us where we are. A plain chronology would have hurt more. Fiona’s pointed asides about the past arrive often enough that the film seems anxious we might miss its point about a long marriage and what it has cost. We had not. And Kristy, for all Thomson’s plainness, is handed a line or two that sound like the writer. At 110 minutes it is not long, but the middle hour sits still, and some critics have found it glacial; we were content to sit with it.

Watch it at home, on a quiet night, with someone you have known a long time. It will start a conversation you may not have planned on having. Have it anyway.

Critical consensus AI synthesised

78
Positive
13
Mixed
2
Negative
0

Most critics come away admiring Away from Her, and the praise gathers in two places. Julie Christie’s performance as Fiona is singled out again and again, for its restraint, its intelligence and for making a woman with Alzheimer’s more than someone to be pitied. Sarah Polley’s writing and direction draw almost as much credit, with the reviews noting how she handles the illness, and the resentments inside a long marriage, without reaching for histrionics. Gordon Pinsent’s quieter work as the husband is also mentioned warmly.

The reservations are scattered rather than shared. Total Film finds the pacing glacial and the film too long, Empire thinks the story loses focus and the dialogue occasionally turns stagy, and The AV Club feels the out-of-order storytelling disturbs the film’s elegiac flow. Variety is alone in arguing that it is Pinsent, not Christie, who carries the film. The spread is narrow: thirteen reviews are positive, two mixed, none negative.

Evening Standard
24 September 2020 · Charlotte O'Sullivan
90*

O'Sullivan gives the film an enthusiastic appraisal, calling it a successful adaptation of Alice Munro's story. She particularly praises Sarah Polley's writing and direction, along with Julie Christie's performance.

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RogerEbert.com
17 May 2007 · ★★★½/4 · Roger Ebert
88

Ebert’s verdict is positive, finding the film quietly moving. He singles out Julie Christie’s performance for praise.

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Slant Magazine
2 March 2007 · ★★★½/4 · Nick Schager
88

Schager finds the film a mature, sensitive, and ultimately hopeful study of Alzheimer’s and its effects on a marriage. He particularly praises Julie Christie’s performance and Polley’s nuanced handling of complicated emotions.

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IndieWire
2 May 2007 · Michael Koresky
85*

Koresky gives the film a warmly admiring verdict, praising Sarah Polley’s empathy and grace. He singles out Julie Christie’s shrewd, articulate performance as the film’s radiating nucleus.

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The Guardian
14 September 2007 · Rob Mackie
85*

Mackie calls the film quietly powerful and praises its dignity, subtlety, and honesty. He singles out Julie Christie’s performance and Polley’s nuanced treatment of memory and marital resentment.

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The AV Club
3 May 2007 · B+ · Tasha Robinson
83

Robinson finds the film a subdued, moving character study, though its achronological storytelling slightly disrupts its elegiac flow. She praises the subtle performances and its willingness to observe emotions without resorting to histrionics.

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Straight answers AI written, from our review

Is Away from Her worth watching?
Away from Her is worth watching for anyone prepared for a quiet, unsentimental film about a long marriage and Alzheimer's, and we scored it 82. Julie Christie and Gordon Pinsent are both exact, and the care home scenes are observed with real patience. The looping structure fidgets more than the story needs, and the middle hour sits very still.
How long is Away from Her, and what is it rated?
Away from Her runs 1h 50m and is rated 0 by the FSK in Germany. It is a drama and romance film.
Where can I watch Away from Her in Germany?
Away from Her is not on any streaming or rental service in Germany at the moment. It is available in 6 other countries; change your country at the top of the page to see where. Availability is checked daily.
What should I watch after Away from Her?
After Away from Her, try Amour (2012, Fi1m 88): Haneke’s Paris flat, a stroke and a husband; colder than Polley, and just as exact. Then Make Way for Tomorrow (1937, Fi1m 91): An old couple parted by their children; the saddest Hollywood film almost nobody has seen; and Poetry (2010, Fi1m 87): A Korean grandmother losing her words takes a verse class; patient, surprising and unsentimental.

Cast

Awards

Academy Awards, 2008

Nominated
Best Actress
Nominated
Best Writing, Adapted Screenplay

Academy of Canadian Cinema and Television Award for Best Motion Picture, 2008

Won
Academy of Canadian Cinema and Television Award for Best Motion Picture

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  2. Make Way for Tomorrow (1937, Fi1m 91)An old couple parted by their children; the saddest Hollywood film almost nobody has seen.

  3. Poetry (2010, Fi1m 87)A Korean grandmother losing her words takes a verse class; patient, surprising and unsentimental.

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