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Film review

Dirty Filthy Love

2005 · Directed by Adrian Shergold · 1h 33m

In a sentenceMichael Sheen counts every step to his own front door and we found we were counting with him

Mark Furness (Michael Sheen) has Tourette’s and obsessive compulsive disorder, and for years he has kept both under wraps with a job, a wife and a great deal of effort. Now the wife, Kathy (Claudie Blakley), has asked him to leave, and the effort is no longer enough. He barks words he does not mean, touches door frames a fixed number of times, counts his steps to the front door and starts again if the count goes wrong. His friend Nathan (Adrian Bower) stands by him without knowing what to say. At a self-help group he meets Charlotte (Shirley Henderson), who will not touch anything with her bare hands and who runs the group with a dry, exact kindness. Mark wants his marriage back. Charlotte thinks he might want something else.

Fi1m review

A romantic comedy about compulsion that refuses to make compulsion the joke. Michael Sheen is remarkable, Shirley Henderson is better than the part, and the film around them is small, kind and a little too tidy in its second half.

Ian Puleston-Davies and Jeff Pope have written a romantic comedy in which the hero cannot leave a room until he has touched the door frame the right number of times. Dirty Filthy Love follows Mark Furness (Michael Sheen), whose marriage to Kathy (Claudie Blakley) has ended and whose Tourette’s and obsessive compulsive disorder, long held down, have come up for air. It is a modest film, 93 minutes, mostly flats and halls and pavements, and it is a good one. It earned its evening from us, though we had to watch a man suffer for a while before he was allowed to be happy.

Sheen is the reason to see it. The tics are precise, a jerk of the head, a word barked at nobody, a hand that has to go back to the wall, and he does not let us see them coming, so each one lands on us as it lands on him. What he plays underneath is shame. Mark apologises constantly, to strangers, to bus stops, to the air, and Sheen makes the apologies worse to watch than the outbursts. There is a moment outside a front door, with the ritual going wrong and starting again, where we realised we had stopped breathing, and that is not a thing we expected from a comedy about a man in a crumpled suit.

Shirley Henderson’s Charlotte will not touch anything with her bare hands and says so in the small, level voice she uses for everything, as though reporting the weather. She runs the self-help group like a woman who has heard every excuse and has one or two of her own. Henderson gives her a dry patience that never tips into saintliness, and when Mark and Charlotte are in the same frame the film has a reason to exist. Their scenes are the best written in it, two people who understand each other’s rituals and are slightly appalled by them.

Adrian Bower’s Nathan is the friend who stays, which is harder to play than the friend who leaves, and Bower does it without a speech. Claudie Blakley’s Kathy is written with care: not cruel, only tired, a woman who has been living with the illness as well and has run out of road. The script does not blame her and does not ask us to, and that restraint is one of the film’s quiet strengths.

David Odd shoots close and often handheld, grey London daylight on the street and flat strip light in the hall, and the frame rarely settles, which suits a man who cannot. Tania Reddin cuts Mark’s compulsions in short, quick beats, so we feel the count without having to sit through all of it; she lets the scenes with Charlotte breathe. Martin Phipps’s score is light and stays out of the way until it is needed, and it is needed only once or twice. David Roger’s production design keeps Mark’s rooms bare and getting barer, and Mary-Jane Reyner’s costumes track his decline in the state of one suit.

The trouble is shape. For an hour the film is content to follow Mark from humiliation to humiliation and to let each one be funny or awful or both. Then it remembers it is a romantic comedy, and the second half hurries through the required stages, the setback, the rival, the decision, with less patience than the first half earned. A few of the comic set pieces push the swearing for a laugh the film has already told us not to take, and once or twice we laughed and felt slightly ashamed of ourselves. The ending, which we will not describe, is kinder than it is surprising.

Films about illness usually cure their heroes by the credits. This one is braver than that, and treats Mark’s condition as something to live alongside rather than defeat. Adrian Shergold directs with no fuss and a great deal of trust in his two leads, and the trust is repaid.

Watch it at home, with someone who will not talk over Sheen. It is a small film and it knows it, and it left us, quite rightly, wanting to check whether we had locked the door.

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64*

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The New York Times
23 September 2005
64*

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Straight answers AI written, from our review

Is Dirty Filthy Love worth watching?
Dirty Filthy Love is worth watching for anyone who wants a romantic comedy that takes its hero's compulsions seriously, and we scored it 74. Michael Sheen is remarkable as a man whose Tourette's and obsessive compulsive disorder have come up for air, and Shirley Henderson matches him. The second half hurries through the usual stages, so the first hour is the stronger one.
How long is Dirty Filthy Love, and what is it rated?
Dirty Filthy Love runs 1h 33m. It is a romance and comedy film.
Where can I watch Dirty Filthy Love in Czechia?
Dirty Filthy Love is not on any streaming or rental service in Czechia at the moment. It is available in 3 other countries; change your country at the top of the page to see where. Availability is checked daily.
How violent or frightening is Dirty Filthy Love, and is it suitable for children?
Dirty Filthy Love has no UK certificate and carries an R in the United States, which points to strong language rather than violence or horror. The swearing is constant, since Mark barks words he does not mean, and some comic set pieces push it hard for laughs. It is not frightening, but it is an adult film about illness and humiliation, and not one for children.
How does Dirty Filthy Love compare to Punch-Drunk Love?
Dirty Filthy Love is the smaller and gentler of the two, a film of flats and pavements and self-help groups, where Punch-Drunk Love is more abrasive and more stylised. Both follow an anxious man who meets an unlikely woman, but Adam Sandler's Barry runs on anger and Michael Sheen's Mark on shame. The Anderson film is the bolder piece; the British one is kinder and gives its woman more to do.
What should I watch after Dirty Filthy Love?
After Dirty Filthy Love, try Punch-Drunk Love (2002, Fi1m 84): Another anxious man, another unlikely woman, with a harmonium instead of a self-help group. Then As Good as It Gets (1997, Fi1m 77): The Hollywood version, louder and smoother, with Nicholson avoiding the cracks in the pavement; and Mary and Max (2009, Fi1m 80): Claymation pen-pals, one of them with Asperger’s, and far more feeling than the medium suggests.

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  1. Punch-Drunk Love (2002, Fi1m 84)Another anxious man, another unlikely woman, with a harmonium instead of a self-help group.

  2. As Good as It Gets (1997, Fi1m 77)The Hollywood version, louder and smoother, with Nicholson avoiding the cracks in the pavement.

  3. Toc Toc (2017) · not reviewed yetA Spanish comedy that locks six compulsive strangers in a waiting room and lets them talk.

  4. Mary and Max (2009, Fi1m 80)Claymation pen-pals, one of them with Asperger’s, and far more feeling than the medium suggests.

  5. The Fisher King (1991, Fi1m 80)Gilliam on madness and friendship in New York, bigger and messier but just as warm.

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