Film review

Terms of Endearment

1983 · Directed by James L. Brooks · 2h 12m · MPA PG

In a sentenceNobody in this family is going to let affection spoil a perfectly good argument

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Aurora Greenway (Shirley MacLaine) and her daughter Emma (Debra Winger) live with an attachment that leaves plenty of room for disagreement. Their family story stretches across thirty years, taking in the affection, arguments and strains of a mother-and-daughter relationship. Garrett Breedlove (Jack Nicholson), a retired astronaut, provides Aurora with company outside that relationship. Jeff Daniels plays Flap Horton, with John Lithgow as Sam Burns and Danny DeVito as Vernon Dahlart. Written and directed by James L. Brooks from Larry McMurtry’s novel, the film follows the family’s life through comedy and drama.

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Fi1m review

Shirley MacLaine, Debra Winger and Jack Nicholson make James L. Brooks’s family drama funny and moving without making its people easy to like. We recommend it warmly, despite the uneven pace of its thirty-year story.

Terms of Endearment is a funny, affecting family drama that survives some untidy storytelling. James L. Brooks, writing and directing from Larry McMurtry’s novel, gives the relationship between Aurora Greenway and her daughter Emma room to be difficult. These women do not become agreeable simply because we are meant to care about them. That makes the comedy sharper and gives the emotion a chance of being believed. We recommend it, with the warning that its 132 minutes sometimes feel loosely assembled.

Shirley MacLaine’s Aurora can be a lot to take, and MacLaine seems entirely comfortable with that risk. Debra Winger’s Emma makes the daughter’s side of the relationship feel equally deserving of attention. It matters that she can hold our interest when MacLaine is the more conspicuous presence. We like the friction between their performances, and the unwillingness to make affection look consistently pleasant. Brooks’s dialogue allows irritation and humour to belong in the same conversation, without either woman having to apologise for being difficult.

Jack Nicholson, as retired astronaut Garrett Breedlove, gives MacLaine someone who can match her for sheer insistence on being noticed. We laughed at their exchanges because neither performer seems willing to let the other have the last word. Nicholson’s expansiveness is funny in this company, where it meets something equally forceful. He also gives the film a useful rest from the strain of the central family relationship. There is a cost: whenever the pairing disappears, Brooks has to work harder to hold our attention.

We like Andrzej Bartkowiak’s cinematography most for making the actors so easy to watch. With MacLaine and Winger, there is plenty to notice without a busy image competing for attention. Polly Platt’s production design gives the family life a convincing everyday setting, which helps when the performances grow large. Michael Gore’s score is the contribution we would turn down: the music’s emotional prompting sometimes makes us notice how hard Brooks is trying. There is enough feeling in the acting already.

Richard Marks has the difficult editing job of helping Brooks fit thirty years into a single film, and the joins are not always comfortable. Individual passages have an easy conversational pace, but the larger movement can feel abrupt. We sometimes want another few minutes with a relationship before the story moves on. Then a less compelling passage is allowed to linger, and the length becomes noticeable. Brooks has given the MacLaine–Nicholson partnership an appeal that the rest of the writing cannot consistently match.

The second half takes a turn we will not describe, and Brooks asks for a stronger emotional response than the earlier comedy might suggest. The acting earns much of it, though we are less persuaded by how the story gets there. His confidence with performers is clearer than his control of the film’s changing pace. That unevenness matters in a drama that depends on our feeling we have lived alongside these people.

Even so, this is the kind of family melodrama that benefits from letting people be funny before asking us to worry about them. Brooks understands how exhausting close relatives can be, and his actors make that exhaustion entertaining without making the affection look foolish. It trusts us to recognise affection even when the people expressing it are behaving badly. Give it the evening, but allow Brooks a little more time than he strictly needs.

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With only 5 reviews in so far, the consensus is positive, with praise centred on the mother-daughter relationship, the mixture of wit and feeling, and the performances of Shirley MacLaine and Jack Nicholson. The reviews value the sharply observed family tensions and the humour that keeps them from becoming oppressive. Reservations concern construction rather than performances: Variety finds the decades-spanning structure disjointed and the film weaker when its leads are absent. Time Out offers the strongest reservations, arguing that the later emotional intensity, though powerfully acted, unbalances what begins as an amusing family comedy.

Los Angeles Times
23 November 1983 · Sheila Benson
95*

The film is the most completely satisfying of the year, a pungent and beautifully observed portrait of life as a fascinating, tender, hilarious and faintly absurd predicament, with a front-row seat to one of the most compelling mother-daughter relationships on screen.

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The New York Times
4 December 1983 · Vincent Canby
85*

The film is not perfect and meanders over 30 years but is one of the most engaging of the year, cherished for its low-pressure operation and containing possibly the best performances ever given by Shirley MacLaine and Jack Nicholson.

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Empire
1 January 2000 · William Thomas
80*

The critic praises the film's clever and witty blend of comedy and emotion, highlighting Jack Nicholson's perfect fit as the retired astronaut who provides relief to the main story's angst.

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Variety
23 November 1983 · James Harwood
80*

The teaming of MacLaine and Nicholson at their best makes it an enormously enjoyable Christmas offering that adds bite and sparkle, though the structure is disjointed as it compresses 30 years and struggles when the leads are offscreen; Brooks' dialogue is wonderful throughout.

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Time Out
10 September 2012 · DP
70*

The film starts as an amusing family comedy but shifts into high gear with a powerful, well-acted death-bed sequence that delivers an emotional impact. It ultimately unbalances the movie, raising questions about the director's skill at overall construction despite his evident strength with emotion.

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Cast

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Awards

Academy Awards, 1984

Nominated
Best Film Editing
Nominated
Best Original Score
Nominated
Best Production Design
Nominated
Best Sound
Won
Best Actress
Won
Best Director
Won
Best Picture
Won
Best Supporting Actor
Won
Best Writing, Adapted Screenplay

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